I want to choose where they open by myself, thank you
very
much.
Maybe this is a little bit too simplistic, but by holding down the
ctrl-key while clicking, you get the link opened in a new tab, by
holding down the shift-key while clicking, you get the link opened in
a new browserwindow (this is at least the case in firefox-browsers).
For IE 6, holding down the ctrl-or shift-key opens the link in a new
browserwindow.
Hope this helps,
Birger