Wouter Steenbeek said:
Now more concrete on the picture itself: If there is an encyclopedic article on a sexual topic in which a picture of someone doing a blow job on himself is or might be relevant, then we must maintain the article, otherwise we shouldn't, because it can only be abused. The case is that simple in my view. (Correct me if I'm wrong, I am a relative newbe...)
Well most people decided it shouldn't be on Wikipedia, whether because they suspected it was a copyright violation, they thought it was too open to abuse, or they didn't think it was suitable for Wikipedia. Quadell has closed the discussion, deleted the image, and removed the link from the article. I'm happy with this outcome. The image was deleted by consensus.