I am not a part of the problem either, and maybe I don't get all the points.
There are countries with more than one official language, and it seems to be the case in Norwegia.
Is there "switzer" wikipedia for switzerland, which would use mixed german, french and italian articles? I don't think there should be one.
If there would be a "Norwegian language" it would be right to have a wikipedia for it. Reading the infos (mainly from [[norwegian language]]) it seems that there is no such thing. There are languages used in Norwegia, Nyorsk and Bokma~l and whatever, so they should have their own Wikipedia, since they're different enough and official enough.
The "norwegian" wikipedia should cease to exist, and should be probably replaced by a single page showing neat links to the respective languages used in norwegia. Interlanguage links should be updated from no: to the respective languages, and articles moved too, fixed or probably both.
Naturally I only tried to use logic and not emotions (it seems to be the main driving force of this heated debate).
And usual general disclaimer apply: I may be wrong and clueless. Definitely nosy.
Peter [[user:grin]]