Mark Christensen wrote:
I want to point out a couple of things about this brief interchange. <<
First, it is probably not in good taste to call anyone hysterical, as
it implies that the root of mental illness is the uterus. <<
It doesn't imply that for most people (who aren't familiar with Freud), and it has nothing to do with why I think the word was inappropriate in this case.
Second, labeling Lir as a disruptive child is not particularly
productive. I think it would better to say that Lir's behavior is often disruptive, and that the overall impression that this behavior gives is one of childish stubbornness. <<
I disagree, Mark.
My overall point is that if we are looking to find "moral authority" we
need to think and act in ways which respect human dignity, and which encourage at least a basic level of kindness and civility. <<
So your point is that we have to treat even our trolls with kindness and civility, and that is what will allow our productive members to be respected and treated as if they had some legitimate authority on the project? I disagree completely.
Your point too is far overstated. There is much more than we could possibly do than simply "encouraging at least a basic level of kindness and civility." I do agree that we should do that. I disagree that calling a troll a disruptive child conflicts with that ideal; I would hope that you'd be able to see that, Mark. Anyway, again, moral authority comes from *respect*, and respect is not merely given by kindness, as many harmless milquetoasts with no opinions of their own have found out. It is given in addition by making useful contributions, knowing a lot about the subject, and--this is what I think we're lacking--working in an atmosphere in which breaking the rules has consequences that are consistently enforced.
Larry