Mark, this a perfect example of why Roma get sick and tired of non-Roma trying to organize their lives by thinking they finally find some exotic puppets to play with. They come with cut and dried ideas and they try to impose them irrespective of the ground reality by not listening to the people.
No-one is suggesting bias or bad faith, only well-intentioned ignorance. That's what the image of the [[Ugly American]] has been all about ever since that book was written in 1958. Most Americans who have regularly involved themselves in Wikipedia have learned that lesson. They have learned that people from other countries prefer to solve their own problems without recourse to the presumption that American solutions are necessarily the best. Regretably, some few Americans here, like you, have never grasped this.
How do you know what Alin is or is not suggesting? Now who is being presumtuous? Somehow I think the phrase "exotic puppet to play with" is hinting at something a bit more malicious than simple well-intentioned ignorance.
Why should that worry YOU? I saw no evident Roma involvement in the decision that there should be one English Wikipedia to unite the British and American languages. Why shouldn't the Roma sort out their own problems? There are more ways to have people come together than having them unite to repel a meddler who has decided that he has better solutions to their problems than they do themselves. If the Ursari speakers feel that they have a problem with the rest of the Roma community it's up to them to seek help; it's not up to a stranger to imagine a problem and impose his own gratuitous solution.
Ursari speakers simply aren't represented here. There are 2 Roma here only as far as I know, and it seems awfully strange to assume that their solution is endorsed by all Roma people.
If a problem doesn't exist yet but will probably exist in the future, it's easier to sort it out while it's still easy to do than when things have already become complicated and it's a real problem in the present.
Mark