I was forced to step up *today* on this mailing list because the description of the WIkimania 2018 incident in the first mail was false: the claim that "none of us expressed there was a problem" is simply not what happened.
And by the way this is exactly why the details of stuff like that are NOT shared publicly. For me the incident was closed and well handled by the T&S team, I really didn't need a debate where people are expressing their uninformed, bar room like opinions about the seriousness of the incident or what should or should not have been done.
Caroline
Le lun. 17 juin 2019 à 17:14, Paulo Santos Perneta paulosperneta@gmail.com a écrit :
Hi Dariusz,
I understand Caroline wanted to add that she was finding difficult that Romain was not aware of her stress or unease on a specific situation vaguely described there (without any mention to her at all). And that later they have talked about it, and she accepted his apologies for that in private. I can't find the least evidence of her being forced to step up and expose herself just to clarify that there. As far as I know, it never was in question that some people felt uneasy with some behavior there. They talked about it, apologies were presented, end of story. Or would have been end of story, if not for the T&S interference.
Paulo
Dariusz Jemielniak darekj@alk.edu.pl escreveu no dia segunda, 17/06/2019 à(s) 16:04:
Hi Paulo,
On Mon, Jun 17, 2019 at 4:54 PM Paulo Santos Perneta wrote: " I'm referring to message from Caroline" - How have you jumped from Caroline wanting to further clarify something, to the conclusion that the OP was "pushing people who felt harassed or mistreated to step forward"?
I'm specifically referring to this sentence " I really do not appreciate having this particular incident discussed here and being forced to step
up
like that."
Yes, she claims to have been "forced to step up", but were you able to find any evidence for that in the OP? Any accusation is automatically
true?
I believe that the person who voluntarily identified herself as the one requesting T&S support is not randomly lying about that. I don't think it was an accusation, it was an expression of the personal urge to set the record straight.
Again, please note that I'm not referring to what did or did not happen a year ago. I've been trying to express my frustration with discussing personal details and stories on a public list. I've clearly failed.
best,
dj
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