I was forced to step up *today* on this mailing list because the
description of the WIkimania 2018 incident in the first mail was false: the
claim that "none of us expressed there was a problem" is simply not what
happened.
And by the way this is exactly why the details of stuff like that are NOT
shared publicly. For me the incident was closed and well handled by the T&S
team, I really didn't need a debate where people are expressing their
uninformed, bar room like opinions about the seriousness of the incident or
what should or should not have been done.
Caroline
Le lun. 17 juin 2019 à 17:14, Paulo Santos Perneta <paulosperneta(a)gmail.com>
a écrit :
Hi Dariusz,
I understand Caroline wanted to add that she was finding difficult that
Romain was not aware of her stress or unease on a specific situation
vaguely described there (without any mention to her at all). And that later
they have talked about it, and she accepted his apologies for that in
private. I can't find the least evidence of her being forced to step up and
expose herself just to clarify that there. As far as I know, it never was
in question that some people felt uneasy with some behavior there. They
talked about it, apologies were presented, end of story. Or would have been
end of story, if not for the T&S interference.
Paulo
Dariusz Jemielniak <darekj(a)alk.edu.pl> escreveu no dia segunda, 17/06/2019
à(s) 16:04:
Hi Paulo,
On Mon, Jun 17, 2019 at 4:54 PM Paulo Santos Perneta wrote:
" I'm referring to message from Caroline" - How have you jumped from
Caroline wanting to further clarify something, to the conclusion that the
OP was "pushing people who felt harassed or mistreated to step forward"?
I'm specifically referring to this sentence " I really do not appreciate
having this particular incident discussed here and being forced to step
up
like that."
Yes, she claims to have been "forced to step up", but were you able to
find any evidence for that in the OP? Any accusation is automatically
true?
I believe that the person who voluntarily identified herself as the one
requesting T&S support is not randomly lying about that. I don't think it
was an accusation, it was an expression of the personal urge to set the
record straight.
Again, please note that I'm not referring to what did or did not happen a
year ago. I've been trying to express my frustration with discussing
personal details and stories on a public list. I've clearly failed.
best,
dj
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