On 12/5/06, Lars Aronsson <lars(a)aronsson.se> wrote:
Michael Snow wrote:
You think trying to make a joke excuses comments
like that?
One problem with open and unmoderated mailing lists is that the
preferred way to respond to stupid messages or insults is with
silence. If everybody who disliked the message would protest,
like Michael did here, the list would be flooded. And if any
single person protests against every stupid message, that person
might end up dominating the list, like someone who doesn't know
how to moderate themselves. (Like those who argue about
Wikipedias in certain languages that begin with M.) Open mailing
lists offer no good way to express sympathy with a protest.
Instead there is a strong incentive for sensible list members not
to protest against offensive messages.
There is, I think, a strong argument that notes such as Michael's
should be sent *privately*, rather than to the list. Certainly on
occasions -- and I think this could be one of them -- it can be useful
to emphasise a remark like this, especially as it is in the context of
the greater discussion.
But generally, if you want to invite someone to deport themselves
better on a mailing list (or indeed on a wiki), it is much more
friendly and likely to get a better response to send them a private
email.
--
Sam