Okay, I've complained a lot, time to give something back.
I think I've managed to create a sexual content policy that's
consistent with the core values of commons and previous decisions,
such as the artworks of Muhammed, while dealing with the problems and
assuring that any sexual content that remains is, at the least,
defensible as serving our educational purpose.
http://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/Commons:Sexual_content
It'll probably need a bit more work, but a policy based on forwarding
our goals, rather than censorship... Well! Think we might have summat
here.