The message below went without response on the list, but there was a
significant off-list response.
Jimmy Wales wrote to James Heilman, and CC'd me. His message professed to
praise this one, but missed its main points:
* There was no mention of professional mediation or facilitation to work
* Jimmy Wales had *even worse* things to say about James Heilman than he
has said in public.
I won't repeat those words on a public list, but I am unimpressed with the
tactic of moving personal attacks off list. Jimmy's message was sent 48
hours ago, and I immediately told him the things I've said here, but there
has been no response.
We should not use off-list messages to convey thoughts that would be
completely unacceptable if said in public. I don't want to be involved in
stuff like that -- and I'd much rather it didn't happen to begin with.
On Sun, Feb 28, 2016 at 10:53 PM, Pete Forsyth <peteforsyth(a)gmail.com>
Jimmy and James, I'm glad to see you both agreeing
on some facts. That's
encouraging. But IMO you should both put some careful thought into this
On Sun, Feb 28, 2016 at 9:36 PM, James Heilman <jmh649(a)gmail.com> wrote:
Finally facts are not determined by a vote. That
you got unanimity for
board.. has offered no objections to any board member discussing long term
strategy with the community at any time" should make all of us worry. I
have provided evidence that refutes this claim here
As somebody who's following this, but who's not locked in a dispute, it
seems there is a very natural explanation for this, that should not
especially make us worry:
Different people, reasonable people, can reasonably disagree about what
constitutes "discussing long term strategy" and what does not.
For the entire board to agree to a statement like that does not strike me
as especially bad; perhaps there was a dominant idea of what constituted
strategy and what didn't, and everybody voted with that idea in mind,
without insisting on a clearer definition in the text of the statement. Not
ideal, I think -- but also not the end of the world.
But Jimmy, you have repeatedly claimed that vote as evidence that James
told a lie.
That claim introduces a lot of drama into the discussion -- and does
exactly something you stated you didn't want to do, which is publicly
assaulting James' reputation.
I would suggest you both stop accusing each other of lying, long enough to
figure out what facts you *can* agree on. You're both Wikipedians, we do
this all the time. It might involve getting out of some of the language
patterns you've been using, e.g. getting away from abstract notions like
"long term strategy."
A skilled, professional mediator, facilitator, or ombudsman can be an
excellent resource for working through stuff like this.