Florence,
since you stated it publicly, please let me express publicly my very
heartfelt and sincere condolences for your loss. I cannot imagine what
it must be like to go through something like this. :-( :-( :-(
If anything I said over the last few weeks contributed to your stress
level, I apologize. I hope that you will, besides all Wikimedia
nonsense, find some quiet time with your friends and loved ones.
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It's hard to say anything else.
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Let me just say this: I have no idea where those rumors are coming from,
but rest assured that I would find any attempt to spread misinformation
just as despicable as you do. I sincerely hope that there are no members
of our project who would stoop to that level. We may have our
disagreements, but I would never question your passion and dedication to
our common cause.
Hugs & lots of WikiLove,
Erik