I've been watching the conversation on this topic from the bench. Milos, this is a highly sensitive issue, you can't tell "private parties" to settle this privately and come back with a solution -- this has to be settled in a public medium (if only for the consensus to be visible). I suggest a page on Meta, e.g. http://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/2010_Decision_on_Moldovan_Wikipedia
Regards, Gutza