Rotem-
I find your previous message insulting, Erik, I was just asking for a little bit of trust on my doings or misdoings, but I'm in no position to prove that my intentions were positive, judge it as you like. I hope we'll both learn to collaborate better in the future as I (and it seems that you, too) intend to donate a lot of time and thought for this project, in its various forms.
I'm very willing to cooperate, but this can only happen within our existing framework of rules and conventions. Letting each Wikipedia do its own thing is not an option for the reasons which I have given. Please see
http://meta.wikipedia.org/wiki/Development_policy
and
http://meta.wikipedia.org/wiki/Development_tasks
for some things which need to be done. I also encourage you to work with Tarquin on a new skin which meets your expectations; whether this will become the new default can then be decided by a vote among all interested Wikipedians.
I certainly understand your frustration given how long it took to set up the Hebrew wiki. We always need volunteers who are willing to do necessary administration tasks. But to allow them to do so, we need to also reach an understanding about the process and policies which we use. Please do recognize my strong objections to violating that process as an attempt to keep the Wikipedia project as a whole functioning.
Regards,
Erik