Erika,
Nice to have you onboard as a fellow evangelist, contributor, and supporter! Many of us would be happy to help!
Email is terrible and so a few of us are getting confused as to what your trying to accomplish. Please be patient and avoid slander. Thanks..
If you can explain the "it" that hurts...then we can address solutions. So lets start with a very small use case. And to help us, can you answer one of these leading questions ?
1. You have some item in Wikimedia that needs to be populated in Wikidata?
2. or is it that you have some Category in Wikimedia that you want to leverage or do something with in Wikidata ?
then...
Can you point to a URL(s) in Wikimedia that we can all look at together and then explain your tasks or questions ?
-Thad