Note, missed your first message so got wrong impression from what looked alike a comment "Eat me, I'm an azuki".
But online people often miss part of messages or misunderstand intentions...
Of course, you now feel a bit what it's like for someone to misinterpret what you write because of your sex. Here we've had some past harassment from guys, so without - or even with - context we may look at that phrase skeptically.
On Wikipedia where a number of guys just are annoyed at anything said by females, they also will be quick to misinterpret or think badly of anything written by women.
On 10/3/2015 6:36 AM, Robert Williams wrote:
Hello, My on-wiki username is Eat me, I'm an azuki (formerly Eat me, I'm a red bean). My main wiki is enwiki, so you can contact me on my talk there (as opposed to, say, my talkpage on the Finnish Wikinews). I am this list's newest member. I wish to share my views about the gender gap issue on Wikimedia projects, but first I would like to know you all better. I hope that this list will generate a lot of interesting discussions that can help me gain some insight about this issue too. Yours, Eat me, I'm an azuki