Recently two users I thought were he's turned out to be she's. And then I identified a user with a neutral sounding name as a he - though looking again at name, probably is a she.
Then it occurred to me, why assume they are male anyway?
Why not call all neutral user names she from now on?
He is part of she. Male is part of female. Man is part of woman.
Hmmm... how much "trouble" will I get in if I do it??
Carol in dc