Do you think it is an issue that people say "women are turned off by all the fighting and feuding" and really mean "women are too fragile"?
I think fighting and feuding are part of the problem but not in the way that you're implying.
My point is not the underlying reason for being turned off by the fighting. It's how that being turned off can be taken by others if you don't take care to fully explain these things.
Daniel Case