Hi,
I am very sad to see this happen. I think this is a case when we cannot gave a win-win
implementation of the policy
* On one hand, Romaine *has* to be close to a person he is talking to, otherwise he is
unable to hear them. I know him, he really is.
* On the other hand, in some cultures standing very close to a person who is not a friend
can be really impolite. Some people prefer to keep more distance when they are talking to
someone. (See
https://simple.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personal_space )
* On one hand, entering a room when someone needs an item urgently can be normal. A person
quite legitimately may want to help as quickly as possible when they are asked to.
* On the other hand, a person entering and immediately leaving the room can indeed be a
significant distraction for a speaker. A speaker may come from a culture where such
behaviour is considered impolite.
We are all coming from different backgrounds, and what is normal for one person might be
offensive to another. Looking forward, can we probably assume more good faith? We might
not be aware what another person's background is, so perhaps we should begin with
asking them why they are doing that and why you are not OK with that.
Best regards,
Mykola (NickK)
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Від кого: "Lodewijk" <lodewijk(a)effeietsanders.org>
Дата: 20 липня 2018, 10:23:49
Hi all,
while I have much sympathy for Romaine, and cannot comprehend the decision with the
available information, I do want to guard us to continue discussing this further here. We
(even Romaine) have only a limited part of the information available to us. I trust that
Romaine works with the very best intentions, and also that the Trust & Safety team has
the best intentions in their implementation. I also trust that the team will make a full
evaluation after Wikimania is completed as their default practice.
As part of this conversation, both here online and offline, I seem to hear several people
who are unhappy with how the policy is implemented. Let us also recognize that it is
important to have a friendly space - and that this is a Hard Thing to accomplish. Agreeing
or disagreeing in public with a decision while only having part of the information can
only make that job harder and/or harm individuals.
If you have beef with the policy and how it is implemented, I suggest that you try to set
up a meetup with the Trust & Safety team, and you can have a conversation with them
about the broader policy. They can perhaps share some rough broader statistics as part of
that. Otherwise, it is probably more appropriate to have this online discussion after the
conference has concluded, based on the policy and practices as a whole, and not an
individual case.
Just my two cents...
Lodewijk
On Fri, Jul 20, 2018 at 10:15 AM Andy Mabbett <andy(a)pigsonthewing.org.uk> wrote:
On 19 July 2018 at 20:30, Romaine Wiki <romaine.wiki(a)gmail.com> wrote:
- People say I have been talking to loud
Please be aware I have a hearing problem and I do hear
myself
Because of these complaints, it was demanded to step
down as a volunteer
organiser for this year's Wikimania.
As someone with family members who are profoundly hard of hearing and
affected by tinnitus, I am sorry to learn that you have been
discriminated against in this way.
I hope that whoever is responsible for our safe spaces policy will
ensure that this does not happen to you - or anyone else - again.
--
Andy Mabbett
@pigsonthewing
http://pigsonthewing.org.uk
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