I accidentally deleted this from the moderation queue, so am forwarding it by hand as wikien-l is an official conduit for complaints about blocking. This is not meant to imply that I attribute any substance to this complaint whatsoever, and personally I would say "cheers to Bishonen, keep up the good work." But anyway.
- d.
---------- Forwarded message ---------- From: "Nathan J. Yoder" njyoder@gummibears.nu To: wikien-l@wikipedia.org Date: Thu, 30 Jun 2005 04:09:43 -0400 Subject: bishonen exercises abuse of admin power I was just recently given a temporary block for all of wikipedia by bishonen for comments here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Talk:List_of_transgendered_people
Of course, that block was based on an injunction in an RfA that she was a party to (as a person filing a complaint, not an arbitrator). It's a conflict of interest and she definitely over stepped bounds there. This reeks of personal vendetta and given her personal history of irrational behavior and personal dislike for me it's not surprising
Not only that, her block was based on non-existant "personal attacks." Calling someone a hypocrite or a liar has already been determined to not constitute a personal attack, however she has decided to override already existing Wikipedia policy and invent her own.
Another issue I'd like to address is regarding my RfA (since I can't comment in it due to being blocked).
1. The admins invented a new Wikipedia policy on the spot, that IRC logs can't be used. Their reference is a meta article which is not part of Wikipedia policy.
Not just that, but they violate their newly invented policy by using evidence from IRC against me: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:Requests_for_arbitration/Njyoder/Prop...
2. Just for emphasis, there is not wikipedia policy against posting IRC logs, so that can't be used against me. Not just that, but it's totally and utterly irrelevent to the reason the RfA was created--for my actions on the gender articles. The whole thing involving Bishonen existed over about 2 days and ended over 3 weeks before the RfA, but it was drug up again for the sole purpose of using it as "evidence" against me. I pointed this out in the RfA, but the arbs ignored it completely because it didn't support the conclusion that they wanted to reach.
3. There are "findings of fact" that include disagreement over my edits on pages. A disagreement is not grounds for an RfA at all.
4. I wasn't ever using personal attacks. The arbitrators deliberately refused to define personal attacks since they knew that if they did try to define them in a way that made me a violator, they'd end up being guilty themselves. If I'm going to be accused of using personal attacks, they better damn well define them, because the policy page on it and other disinterested third parties don't consider accusing someone of lying to be a personal attack.
5. I was said to not have cited sources in the "findings of fact," and yet there was _no_ evidence of this. You'd think they'd at least provide a link to something I didn't cite a source for. I didn't insert new information into the gender article.
I removed information because some of it was wrong (which I did cite sources for), some of it was _obviously_ POV, some of it was totally incoherent and some of it I was asking for a source for. The only thing I removed for reasons of factual accuracy was the etmology, for which I did quote an external source regarding the etymology of it. So it's a lie to say that I didn't cite anything.
To say it's a "finding of fact" that I didn't cite sources for things I removed makes no sense. That's not how wikipedia works. According to them, if I remove or add anything I have to cite a source, but if AlexR and Axon add or remove anything, they don't need any citations at all.
That's completely backwards, if something in an article is contested and no source is provided, it is standard wikipedia procedure to remove it until a source can be provided.
This makes even less sense because neither Axon nor AlexR (the main parties to the dispute) never accused me of violating the rules to no cite sources. That was something added in by an arbitrator on a whim for no reason.
I don't even understand their complaints, I removed a lot of very bad, non-encyclopedic garbage from it and as a result now two people are working on completely new versions of the article.
6. "2.5) Njyoder seems to lack insight into the complexities involved in crafting an adequate article regarding gender; his editing style could be fairly characterized as ham-handed [38] and [39]."
Some of these bullet points shouldn't even exist. Personal opinion of my understanding and editing style aren't even relevent and yet 3 aribtrators voted on this. If these arbs weren't biased, it should have received _zero_ votes. I'll note that most of these points were added by one arb, even though most of them, even from the standpoint of the complaintants, weren't actually relevent. It's trully sad, he could have completely fabricated numerous accusations, like saying I was making racist remarks and inserted it as a bullet point and none of the other arbitrators would have bothered to check if it was true and would have just voted "support."
7. They are disputing my arguing style in quite a few bullet points and are arguing that I should be banned on the basis that they basically disagree with my viewpoint. It makes no sense to reprimand me for persisting with my argument when those arguing against me were persisting with theirs just as much. It's also not against any wikipedia policies to stand firm in your views, if it were, there would be a lot of problems.
Also, they engage in a strawman by quite literally, out of my entire argument, just quoting a part of a single sentence. they got my "basic argument" entirely wrong and I'm betting you the arbitrators didn't even bother reading through it, they just took the summary given by Axon and AlexR even though I actually gave a summary myself.
8. "Extensive attempts by other editors to explain that the talk page was not an appropriate venue for extended discussion of the "truth" of a particular reference were ineffective."
and "The establishment of truth is not one of the purposes of Wikipedia which merely attributes the knowledge it contains to published sources."
These are just plain ridiculous points. Talk pages most certainly exist to discuss the validity of things included in an article. Wikipedia does not exist to simply parrot any arbitrary source that someone decided to pick. Of course, it appears the arbitrators voted to suggest that you should just blindly take any information from any source and it's perfectly ok as long as you cite it.
Not just that, but that's not what was even being contested on the talk pages. Most people arguing against me weren't arguing that it shouldn't be discussed on the talk pages, they were arguing that the source was actually valid and thusly should be included.
You'll also note that this is another example of inventing a policy on the spot. Why don't the arbitrators put up a vote for this as a policy and see how well it goes over? I guarantee you that it will be shot down quickly, because it's absurd.
Following their logic, you can include any information from any source in a Wikipedia article. As long as it's a published source, nothing else matters.
This wasn't a quotation of popular opinion either, this was a matter of statistical fact as stated by the Wikipedia article. It stated something from the Kinsey Report as fact, even though it was factually incorrect. In what strange bizzarro wikipedia is incorrect information allowed to be included simply because it's from a popular published source? I guess this means now I can start taking statistics from random popular websites that were clearly pulled out of thin air.
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Anyway, as you can see the arbitrators are inventing new policies, refusing to address my concerns, not reading what happened and are fabricating things which never happened.
They're proposing a ban on all gender/sexuality related articles. I've only made two significant edits on any gender/sexuality articles (gender and bisexuality). If you include talk pages, I've edited a total of 3 pages for which there is dispute: gender, bisexuality and third gender.
This doesn't make any sense to me, I'm basically being banned from all sexuality articles for removing a single paragraph (with strong evidence backing my reason doing so--I cited NUMEROUS expert sources and a primary source) from a single sexuality article.
I'm also being banned for removing POV, incoherent sentences and bad information from a single gender related article.
How the heck does a year long ban make sense here? This is a bad case of the arbs trying to enforce their own opinions. Heck, at least one of the arbs on the case (ambi) is part of the LGBT Wikipedia notice board that tries to regulate articles, so it's pretty obvious she wants to keep those articles as-is.
THE FOLLOWING IS JUST A RANT AND IS NOT DIRECTLY RELEVENT, NO NEED TO READ.
I don't really care so much for editing the article so much as I care about the absolutely astounding level of intellectual dishonesty going on here. They don't like someone challenging obvious POV and extremist LGBT propaganda (yes, I can provide direct links, if necessary, to the parties trying to defend obvious POV).
They are trying desperately to make as large a number possible of Wikipedia articles on every tiny little subject concerning LGBT things and the articles themselves read as if they are taken straight out of a LGBT book for a queer studies course, except a lot more poorly written. I imagine a couple years from now they'll have an article for everything, even things like Gay_rights_and_the_views_of_third_baptist_church_in_podunk,Utah.
I just am so surprised how sheltered some of these sub-cliques are, because you know damn well their the types are college undergrads (with mommy and daddy paying their way), they just discovered they had a large group of people they can whine to and have validate heir feelings and biases.
I think a few years down the road, when they start meeting those of the gobbleteequa type outside of school, they'll realize what pansies they are and that most gobbleteequa aren't whiny academic PC cowards who have no understanding of the real world. Yes, that's right, you're not actually representative of the group, you're representative of just the extremists. You're theoreticians and idealists. And you know the irony of it all? It's almost always the most privileged who are whining about being underprivileged. The ones who actually ARE underprivileged get pissed off at these types for that very reason and as a result become more distanced from movements (they scared the less privileged ones off).
The one example that I always like to think of is how the rich white female feminists always try to speak for all women and then have they audacity to privilege check middle and lower class black women when said black women call the rich white ones on their BS. This is paralleled in all of the gobbleteequa groups as well and is truly sad. :-(
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This is not meant to imply that I attribute any substance to this complaint whatsoever, and personally I would say "cheers to Bishonen, keep up the good work." But anyway.
Of course you would say cheers, you're the one who created the injunction and in the process violated Wikipedia policy by personally attacking me in the injunction itself. It's too bad there's no one to regulate the arbitrators.
Also, it appears bishonen, out of her personal vendetta, has renewed my block:
Nathan, I blocked you for 24 hours at 0:15 UTC. You're perhaps not aware that the clock is automatically reset if you try to edit without being logged in to your usual account. I've noticed here that that has happened several times now. (Only the latest time it's happened will be recorded on the blocklist.) In other words, you're lengthening your block yourself. Provided you stop doing it now, I'm willing to unblock you 24 hours after my original block, as a gesture of good will. Bishonen | talk 30 June 2005 08:02 (UTC)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/User_talk:Njyoder
I'd say a gesture of good will would to be to stop lying and to remove the block since it was motivated by a personal vendetta.
She didn't even check the ips and I'm not sure she even has the authority to do that in the first place. Go ahead, check the ips yourself, they two are not the same. Admins most certainly should not be blocking ips and extending blocks without checking them first. It doesn't even make sense anyway, why would I post during a block with the same ip?
Notice how she didn't provide a link to whatever account was supposedly doing the editing and what article it was editing. Yes, totally honest admins make an accusation of circumventing a ban without providing a link to where it was supposedly cirumvented!
Also, I have to wonder if David Gerard, the one who created the injunction, is ever going to bother abiding by the no personal attacks rule himself and actually bother to qualify what counts as a personal attack. He won't bother since he knows he's guilty of it himself.
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Nathan J. Yoder (njyoder@energon.org) [050630 20:06]:
Also, I have to wonder if David Gerard, the one who created the injunction, is ever going to bother abiding by the no personal attacks rule himself and actually bother to qualify what counts as a personal attack. He won't bother since he knows he's guilty of it himself.
[[Wikipedia:No personal attacks]]
Owing to the list's lack of patience with complainants going off into attack jags, your posts here are now moderated. Please do try harder to speak politely. Thanks!
- d.
I dropped your messages for the attacks contained therein; I let this one through for having a lot fewer of them. The remaining readers of wikien-l are largely sick of fifty-message threads of querulous ranting, so they're not being encouraged. You don't have some sort of intrinsic right to rant as you please here; you can be sure at least a few of the many admins reading this list will have looked into the incidents upsetting you.
So out of the entire history of the mailing list, you decide to do this just now? Uh huh. I had only sent about 3 e-mails so far and you all of a sudden decided to start censoring. Regardless of my "personal attacks" my e-mails were still perfectly on-topic and had legitimate questions. Censoring them isn't going to make me e-mail less, it's going to make me e-mail more in response to this nefarious behavior.
Also, if the readers don't want to read certain e-mails, they don't have to it. It's simple really and it's also childish to not be able to just move past a thread you don't like.
And I must point out that you always have the option of not making personal attacks in your posts.
So why do you use them?
You appear to take anything said about you that you don't like as an attack, yet are unable to perceive your own attacks on others.
Pot, meet kettle, it's black! I only called one statement of yours a personal attack, so this statement is just plain ludicrous. I'm not sure what math you're using, but the kind I'm using one does not equal to many.
The reference to [[Wikipedia:No personal attacks]] should be all a reasonable person needs; that you don't seem to get it should not ultimately be anyone else's problem.
You have seriously got to be kidding me. Have you read the talk page for "no personal attacks"? There is a lot of debate going on about what constitutes a personal attack and what should/shouldn't be allowed. There is no clear consensus and you suggesting that it's just what a reasonable person needs just a way for you to continue being evasive and avoiding defining it.
So I guess all this debate and the many people engaging in it on the talk page are just idiots, right? After all, it's *totally* obvious, it's just that so many people are too dumb to grasp the obvious and really majority support for your "obvious" definition isn't needed at all.
I'm sorry, but the facts just aren't in your favor here. If you're going to defend yourself, you better damn well not cop-out like you're trying to do now. If you can't even see the gray area involved here, then you shouldn't be an admin at all. I'm curious, is it a personal attack if I call someone a black and white thinker? What about describing someone's views regarding a specific matter at hand as "tunnel vision"?
The wikien-l admins really don't like work, so try to avoid it as far as possible. But letting the list turn to querulous ranting is leading to (fairly justified IMO) complaints. So we'll be trying harder to stop the rubbish at a sensible point.
Huh? You stopped me after 3 e-mails. You even rejected my first response to bishonen which was in direct regard to my block and is one of the purposes of this list. Cutting it off that early is hardly a "sensible point."
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On 7/1/05, Nathan J. Yoder njyoder@energon.org wrote:
The reference to [[Wikipedia:No personal attacks]] should be all a reasonable person needs; that you don't seem to get it should not ultimately be anyone else's problem.
You have seriously got to be kidding me. Have you read the talk page for "no personal attacks"? There is a lot of debate going on about what constitutes a personal attack and what should/shouldn't be allowed. There is no clear consensus and you suggesting that it's just what a reasonable person needs just a way for you to continue being evasive and avoiding defining it.
Going by the reality, personal attacks are condoned if the person making the attacks is "a good editor".
Get together a few like-minded souls and you can pretty much do what you want in Wikipedia. The policies are optional.
Nathan J. Yoder (njyoder@energon.org) [050701 09:36]:
So out of the entire history of the mailing list, you decide to do this just now? Uh huh.
Yep. People's patience has run out with noise.
I had only sent about 3 e-mails so far and you all of a sudden decided to start censoring. Regardless of my "personal attacks" my e-mails were still perfectly on-topic and had legitimate questions. Censoring them isn't going to make me e-mail less, it's going to make me e-mail more in response to this nefarious behavior.
If we have to moderate all new accounts, we will.
- d.
Yep. People's patience has run out with noise.
How convenient and totally not childish if you. After all, it's not like people can just scroll past messages that they don't like. Valid criticism must be censored at all costs regardless of how on-topic they are!
I'm beginning to seriously wonder how you became an arbitrator in the first place, since you don't even follow Wikipedia policies and you're obviously intent on silencing dissenters.
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David Gerard wrote:
[[Wikipedia:No personal attacks]]
I've taken a look at the page and I quite agree with Nathan that it fails to define what a personal attack is.
99% of people have an intuitive feel for what constitutes a personal attack; they have the empathy to understand that certain remarks can hurt another person, even when the objective contents of the statement are true (e.g. "you're a hypocrite"). [[Wikipedia:No personal attacks]] assumes this of the reader.
Nathan appears to belong to the 1% of people who have a low EQ (empathisation quotient) which enables him to comment in an insulting way without realising the effect it has on other people, solemnly believing that he's "only telling the truth". Most of the abusive ranters I see on this list are like that. It is no surprise to me that such a person strongly feels that a block for something they cannot define is highly unjust, and that they feel they are treated quite unfairly given they're telling their version of the truth.
Wikipedia is one of those online communities that tend to attract these kinds of people, so the percentage of them is higher here than in the general population. Unfortunately, even, these kinds of people tend to be more dedicated editors, since high-EQ people tend to have more of a real life.
I don't know how many Wikipedians have thought about this issue in the past, but we will have to come to some sort of agreement on whether to (a) require a minimum EQ, thereby outright excluding a certain set of people, or (b) actually attempt to define "personal attack".
Once you start to try defining "personal attack", you'll begin to realise how hard it is; then maybe you'll begin to understand how hard it must be for someone who doesn't have the intuitive ability to classify remarks as "personal attacks".
Timwi
We could start by banning words like "hypocrite", "moron" and "nazi" when describing other wikipedians (regardless of how true these could be as Timwi said). It's the loaded words that make up a majority of personal attacks.
--Mgm
On 7/2/05, Timwi timwi@gmx.net wrote:
David Gerard wrote:
[[Wikipedia:No personal attacks]]
I've taken a look at the page and I quite agree with Nathan that it fails to define what a personal attack is.
99% of people have an intuitive feel for what constitutes a personal attack; they have the empathy to understand that certain remarks can hurt another person, even when the objective contents of the statement are true (e.g. "you're a hypocrite"). [[Wikipedia:No personal attacks]] assumes this of the reader.
Nathan appears to belong to the 1% of people who have a low EQ (empathisation quotient) which enables him to comment in an insulting way without realising the effect it has on other people, solemnly believing that he's "only telling the truth". Most of the abusive ranters I see on this list are like that. It is no surprise to me that such a person strongly feels that a block for something they cannot define is highly unjust, and that they feel they are treated quite unfairly given they're telling their version of the truth.
Wikipedia is one of those online communities that tend to attract these kinds of people, so the percentage of them is higher here than in the general population. Unfortunately, even, these kinds of people tend to be more dedicated editors, since high-EQ people tend to have more of a real life.
I don't know how many Wikipedians have thought about this issue in the past, but we will have to come to some sort of agreement on whether to (a) require a minimum EQ, thereby outright excluding a certain set of people, or (b) actually attempt to define "personal attack".
Once you start to try defining "personal attack", you'll begin to realise how hard it is; then maybe you'll begin to understand how hard it must be for someone who doesn't have the intuitive ability to classify remarks as "personal attacks".
Timwi
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We could add some examples to [[Wikipedia:No personal attacks]]. We had a big talk here about "moron." If you want trouble with someone who is little slow, just call em a moron and see what it gets you. Nazi is a little easier case, but we still have Wikipedia users who think they can throw the word around and make it stick, see for example the current Arbitration case [[Wikipedia:Requests_for_arbitration/Mlorrey/ Proposed_decision#Advocacy_by_Mlorrey]]. Hypocrite is a bit more difficult -- how do you say nicely that an editor is applying one standard to himself and another to others. I guess you have to spell out the behavior, giving examples. Maybe some talk about how to do that on Wikipedia:No personal attacks, about adequately communicating about what is bothering you rather than resorting to invidious labels.
Fred
On Jul 2, 2005, at 5:23 AM, MacGyverMagic/Mgm wrote:
We could start by banning words like "hypocrite", "moron" and "nazi" when describing other wikipedians (regardless of how true these could be as Timwi said). It's the loaded words that make up a majority of personal attacks.
--Mgm
We could add some examples to [[Wikipedia:No personal attacks]]. We had a big talk here about "moron." If you want trouble with someone who is little slow, just call em a moron and see what it gets you. Nazi is a little easier case, but we still have Wikipedia users who think they can throw the word around and make it stick, see for example the current Arbitration case [[Wikipedia:Requests_for_arbitration/Mlorrey/
I never called anyone a moron or anything similar though, why are you even using that as an example? It seems you're only intent on misleading everyone into thinking I did things that I didn't.
Proposed_decision#Advocacy_by_Mlorrey]]. Hypocrite is a bit more difficult -- how do you say nicely that an editor is applying one standard to himself and another to others. I guess you have to spell out the behavior, giving examples. Maybe some talk about how to do that on Wikipedia:No personal attacks, about adequately communicating about what is bothering you rather than resorting to invidious labels.
There's no policy on Wikipedia saying you have to be Mr. Nice Guy. Whenever I make an accusation like hypocrite, I always explain why I'm giving that accusation. So this doesn't make any sense at all, you're saying I'm allowed to do it with explanation, but that's exactly what I was banned for doing.
So let me get this straight about the real policy: if you're in favor with the admins and you make an accusation of hypocrisy with an accusation, it's ok, but if you're not, you get banned. Gotcha.
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Nathan J. Yoder (njyoder@energon.org) [050703 00:33]:
There's no policy on Wikipedia saying you have to be Mr. Nice Guy.
[[Wikipedia:Civility]]
So let me get this straight about the real policy: if you're in favor with the admins and you make an accusation of hypocrisy with an accusation, it's ok, but if you're not, you get banned. Gotcha.
The rules are explicitly different for Nathan J. Yoder; that's what a short-leash personal attack parole, such as you've been put on, means. Any admin feels you've made a personal attack, *ZAP*. Having run out of words, we've had to resort to [[B. F. Skinner]] and the lessons of Professor Cattleprod.
If you really don't want the choke chain to bite, I strongly suggest doing your best not to say anything that could *conceivably* be taken as a personal attack, since you don't have much of a feel for what is and isn't.
You're quite capable of writing sensible, well thought-out emails that contribute quality to the discussion, you sent one today and one yesterday. This is the only reason you haven't just been kicked off.
- d.
[[Wikipedia:Civility]]
That rule is far too broad and ambiguous to be meaningful. If were are to interpt it in the way that you're saying, then practically anything could be considered uncivil, since disagreements over anything vaguely controversial will lead to 'conflict' and 'stress' making this a hand-holding, coddling policy that no one, yourself included, actually follows.
Didn't you recently make an e-mail to this list that you didn't care if people were offended by certain categorizations on wikipedia and that they should suck it up? That seems like a blatant violation of this silly interpretation of civility which you change the meaning of to suit you. It's clear that you don't think this is a hand-holding encyclopedia based on other statements, but just for the purpose of justifying your wrongful ban you're changing that stance.
The rules are explicitly different for Nathan J. Yoder; that's what a short-leash personal attack parole, such as you've been put on, means. Any admin feels you've made a personal attack, *ZAP*. Having run out of words, we've had to resort to [[B. F. Skinner]] and the lessons of Professor Cattleprod.
Run out of what words? This is the first time you've actually responded to my concerns and even then you still haven't address them. You *still* haven't defined what a personal attack is and I've already proven your absurd "all reasonable people know what it is" argument to be wrong as evidenced by the many people on the talk page who agree with me that it's not clear.
If you really don't want the choke chain to bite, I strongly suggest doing your best not to say anything that could *conceivably* be taken as a personal attack, since you don't have much of a feel for what is and isn't.
You don't seem to either, since you've personally attacked me. So why should an arbitrator who can't judge themselves using their own criteria be able to do it?
This doesn't make sense anyway, it's just "because we say so" logic
You're quite capable of writing sensible, well thought-out emails that contribute quality to the discussion, you sent one today and one yesterday. This is the only reason you haven't just been kicked off.
Not when someone is being a hypocrite, liar or otherwise POV pushing. Dealing with someone like that lends itself to "conflict" and "stress" no matter what, but you are deliberately ignoring that. Your behavior is quite obnoxious here (just mirroring one of your non-personal-attacks back at you).
"This is the only reason you haven't just been kicked off" is ridiculous and only goes further to show how biased you are.
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On 7/2/05, Fred Bauder fredbaud@ctelco.net wrote:
Hypocrite is a bit more difficult -- how do you say nicely that an editor is applying one standard to himself and another to others.
I really should shut up at this point.
We could start by banning words like "hypocrite", "moron" and "nazi" when describing other wikipedians (regardless of how true these could be as Timwi said). It's the loaded words that make up a majority of personal attacks.
How is hypocrite a "loaded word"? That's totally ridiculous to start banning words without context and goes against the basic principles of Wikipedia. You better start banning terms like 'troll' and 'sock puppet' too, since those are all "personal attacks" too.
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99% of people have an intuitive feel for what constitutes a personal attack; they have the empathy to understand that certain remarks can hurt another person, even when the objective contents of the statement are true (e.g. "you're a hypocrite"). [[Wikipedia:No personal attacks]] assumes this of the reader.
Strange then that 99% of the people on the talk page for "no personal attacks" don't actually understand it. There is no conensus on it as you're suggesting, so your argument holds no water.
Also, there is no Wikipedia policy against hurting peoples' feelings. The policy is against personal attacks only, whether or not it hurts someone's feelings is entirely irrelevent. You might have a point if you were arguing from Wikipedia policy rather than your personal feelings.
Now following your premise, we can *never* criticize another Wikipedian again without using totally politically correct, walking-on-eggshells language. You couldn't accuse someone of being a troll, you'd have to say something like "well, it seems to me like you're just trying to get people riled up, I may be wrong and I apologize if I do, but it seems like that and you should please stop doing this kind of behavior that seems like it" instead of just saying "you're a troll."
Nathan appears to belong to the 1% of people who have a low EQ (empathisation quotient) which enables him to comment in an insulting way without realising the effect it has on other people, solemnly believing that he's "only telling the truth". Most of the abusive ranters I see on this list are like that.
Your accusation of me being abusive and having a low EQ hurts my feelings. Ooops, I guess that puts you in that 1% too! Now this is a very good example of hypocrisy, he just got done saying that "personal attacks" (as in applying a label to someone's behavior) is wrong, then just proceeded to do it himself right now!
Oh wait, did I hurt your feelings in describing your behavior that hurt my feelings? Who do we punish in a case like this?! What a conundrum!
Wikipedia is one of those online communities that tend to attract these kinds of people, so the percentage of them is higher here than in the general population. Unfortunately, even, these kinds of people tend to be more dedicated editors, since high-EQ people tend to have more of a real life.
Wow, you just attacked me by saying I don't have a life, where does the hypocrisy end? *clap clap clap* I applaud you on making yourself look so bad.
I'd also like to note that it's actually quite the opposite, the Wikipedians who are the whiniest are the ones who spend the most time editing. In fact, that is the typical accusation--that "meany heads" like me rarely edit by comparison.
I don't know how many Wikipedians have thought about this issue in the past, but we will have to come to some sort of agreement on whether to (a) require a minimum EQ, thereby outright excluding a certain set of people, or (b) actually attempt to define "personal attack".
(a) You don't meet that requirement (pot and kettle situation). (b) Watch this get put on the article without having a vote.
Once you start to try defining "personal attack", you'll begin to realise how hard it is; then maybe you'll begin to understand how hard it must be for someone who doesn't have the intuitive ability to classify remarks as "personal attacks".
Well you don't seem to have an intuitive ability to do it either, since you just engaged in several "personal attacks" against me. You even proceded to call the many people on the "no personal attacks" talk page low EQ having, abusive people for wanting a definition.
Apparently, Timwi is one of the great enlightened ones who knows better than those obviously inferior people on the talk page who agree with me that it's not clear what constitutes a personal attack. Clearly, this is something that is TOTALLY obvious if you're not a bad, abusive person (I'm still crying over that personal attack btw--are you going to apologize?).
In any case, if you're relying on "intuition" it means that you're probably not relying on logic, which is a very, VERY bad thing when you're talking about a policy. If a policy can't be based on logic, then it shouldn't exist. That said, it IS possible to define it if you are an objective thinkier with a high IQ (wait, is it a personal attack for me to say you ahve a low IQ, but not one for you to say I have a low EQ?).
I also love your assumption that personal attacks should be defined in terms of how hurt people's feelings are rather than how counter-productive they are to Wikipedia.
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On Jul 2, 2005, at 8:01 AM, Nathan J. Yoder wrote:
Also, there is no Wikipedia policy against hurting peoples' feelings.
There is a policy: [[Wikipedia:Civility]].
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:Civility
It is considered part a "key policy:" "Respect other users."
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ Wikipedia:Policies_and_guidelines#Key_policies
It is enforced:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ Wikipedia:Policies_and_guidelines#How_are_policies_enforced.3F
Fred
Nathan,
I'm a bit puzzled by your angered reaction. You're making it sound like I was expressing some sort of grudge against you. I assure you I don't. Please calm down a bit.
Strange then that 99% of the people on the talk page for "no personal attacks"
99% of the people on that page are hardly representative of 99% of the population of the Earth, especially seeing as the remaining 1% is much more likely to be on Wikipedia in the first place.
Also, there is no Wikipedia policy against hurting peoples' feelings.
People usually prefer to work in an environment in which they are not exposed to things that hurt their feelings. It is normally considered an unwritten rule of society to avoid hurting other people's feelings (this is called "civility"). It is also normally considered an unwritten rule to avoid personal attacks -- but since we have had contributors in the past who apparently didn't know this, we have created the page [[Wikipedia:No personal attacks]].
The policy is against personal attacks only, whether or not it hurts someone's feelings is entirely irrelevent.
Not really -- the policy was set up precisely *because* personal attacks hurt people's feelings and therefore make Wikipedia a less enjoyable experience.
Now following your premise, we can *never* criticize another Wikipedian again without using totally politically correct, walking-on-eggshells language.
That is correct; that would be the ideal situation. A dispute on Wikipedia should ideally always centre around content issues, and never a Wikipedian's person. Unfortunately, not all Wikipedians can always control their temper enough...
You couldn't accuse someone of being a troll
Indeed I would prefer if people not do this, even when they are right. Trolls, too, are people with feelings that can be hurt, and I don't think anybody would want to be called a troll. (I'm restricting myself to people who have been on the Internet enough to know what a "troll" is in the Internet sense.) Nevertheless, many people often feel justified in using this personal attack against people on the mailing list, especially when most other participants on the mailing list agree with them. This does not mean that it is the right thing to do.
Nathan appears to belong to the 1% of people who have a low EQ (empathisation quotient) which enables him to comment in an insulting way without realising the effect it has on other people, solemnly believing that he's "only telling the truth". Most of the abusive ranters I see on this list are like that.
Your accusation of me being abusive
There was no accusation of you being abusive. You're reading too much into it.
and having a low EQ hurts my feelings.
I apologise if it does. I guess it was naïve of me to assume that you would find this revelation as useful as I did.
Ooops, I guess that puts you in that 1% too!
Here you are making the assumption that I would have placed myself in the 99%. However, I never did. You are also making the assumption that I think the 1% are necessarily bad people, just because they have a low EQ. I never said this either. (In fact, personally, I find people with a low SQ much worse ;-) but fortunately, they're rare on Wikipedia!)
Now this is a very good example of hypocrisy, he just got done saying that "personal attacks" (as in applying a label to someone's behavior) is wrong, then just proceeded to do it himself right now!
Whether something is a "personal attack" is often a subjective thing -- some people might not object to being called a hypocrite, while others do. Similarly, some people may or may not object to having their low EQ pointed out to them. I didn't expect that you would consider it a personal attack, as I would not have thought that you would consider a low EQ a bad thing.
Unfortunately, there is no deterministic algorithm that universally classifies any statement as either a "personal attack" or not. For someone with such a strong tendency towards systematisation rather than empathisation, such an algorithm would be very useful, almost essential. But alas, it doesn't exist. Given that Wikipedians tend to be human beings with feelings, it is nevertheless necessary to get a feel for it if you want to interact with them in a civil and pleasant way...
Wikipedia is one of those online communities that tend to attract these kinds of people, so the percentage of them is higher here than in the general population. Unfortunately, even, these kinds of people tend to be more dedicated editors, since high-EQ people tend to have more of a real life.
Wow, you just attacked me by saying I don't have a life, where does the hypocrisy end?
I didn't say you don't have a life. You're reading into it again. The term "real life" is usually used to refer to social interaction with other people outside the Internet and computers. I'm sure you have a life, but I wouldn't be surprised if it's primarily an online/Internet life.
Once you start to try defining "personal attack", you'll begin to realise how hard it is; then maybe you'll begin to understand how hard it must be for someone who doesn't have the intuitive ability to classify remarks as "personal attacks".
Well you don't seem to have an intuitive ability to do it either, since you just engaged in several "personal attacks" against me. You even proceded to call the many people on the "no personal attacks" talk page low EQ having, abusive people for wanting a definition.
I don't think many people here will disagree that the average EQ is quite a bit lower on Wikipedia than in the general population (nor do I think many people will consider that a bad thing). It is no surprise that the average EQ on [[Wikipedia talk:No personal attacks]] is even lower. The average SQ is probably correspondingly higher, hence why people are seeking clarification (in the form of a deterministic algorithm) of what constitutes a "personal attack".
Also, since you're such a fan of logic, surely you will understand that just because I said that most of the abusive people on the mailing list seem to have a low EQ, it doesn't follow that everyone with a low EQ must automatically be abusive. So no, I didn't call anyone "abusive" except for those people that are abusive.
Apparently, Timwi is one of the great enlightened ones who knows better than those obviously inferior people on the talk page who agree with me that it's not clear what constitutes a personal attack.
It is pretty obvious that most people know better than you what constitutes a personal attack, but I didn't say that I was one of them. In fact, in my previous posting I actually agreed with you that it's not clear what constitutes a personal attack -- except to people with a high enough EQ that they have an intuitive feel for it.
In any case, if you're relying on "intuition" it means that you're probably not relying on logic, which is a very, VERY bad thing when you're talking about a policy. If a policy can't be based on logic, then it shouldn't exist.
Yes, this is the stereotypical systematiser's thinking. Rules and policies must be based on precise, defined axioms. They must be logical, structured, deterministic, predictable, and algorithmic. I normally tend to agree with that. Unfortunately humans aren't logical, much less predictable and algorithmic. Especially whether a true statement is seen as offensive/an insult/a "personal attack" is incredibly unpredictable. I understand that in your mind this makes the policy quite unfair: how can you follow a rule that is unpredictable? Well, you see, even the empathisers make mistakes: they sometimes accidentally insult each other. But their empathisation skills (usually) make them aware of it after the fact, and they tell them that they should apologise, even if their original statement was true, to alleviate the other person's hurt feelings. And then the other person's empathisation skills will tell them that the first person is really sorry and didn't mean to hurt their feelings. Then they can be friends again. And both have learnt a lesson! The next time the same person won't make the same mistake again because now they know that the relevant statement can be taken as an insult.
That said, it IS possible to define it if you are an objective thinker with a high IQ.
Only if the thing you are trying to define is something purely objective, which unfortunately the issue of personal attacks isn't.
I also love your assumption that personal attacks should be defined in terms of how hurt people's feelings are rather than how counter-productive they are to Wikipedia.
The two things are strongly correlated.
Timwi
I'm a bit puzzled by your angered reaction. You're making it sound like I was expressing some sort of grudge against you. I assure you I don't. Please calm down a bit.
I'm a bit puzzled as to why you think I'm angered and why you persist in attacking me personally.
99% of the people on that page are hardly representative of 99% of the population of the Earth, especially seeing as the remaining 1% is much more likely to be on Wikipedia in the first place.
So basically you just made up that figure? It really doesn't matter anyway, since you're not dealing with the general population, you're dealing with Wikipedians. You make Wikipedia rules to deal with Wikipedians, not Wikipedia rules to deal with the general population.
People usually prefer to work in an environment in which they are not exposed to things that hurt their feelings.
Of course people *prefer* it, but that's not a realistic expectation, especially in the context of contrversial topics on Wikipedia, and it's certainly not something that should be enforced. There's a reason why there are no laws against hurting peoples feelings.
Not really -- the policy was set up precisely *because* personal attacks hurt people's feelings and therefore make Wikipedia a less enjoyable experience.
I doubt many people would disagree that Wikipedia policies exist for the purpose of making a better encyclopedia. Preserving anyone and everyone's personal feelings at all costs is not only impossible even by the most well intentioned people, it's also very counter-productive to enfore a "you must be politically correct and hand-holding" rule.
The personal attacks rule exists to squash counter-productive behavior, not to enforce some insane politically correct standard.
That is correct; that would be the ideal situation. A dispute on Wikipedia should ideally always centre around content issues, and never a Wikipedian's person. Unfortunately, not all Wikipedians can always control their temper enough...
It has nothing to do with temper. If someone is behaving badly, it is *necessary* to discuss that. Otherwise you're simply accepting that bad behavior and allowing it to continue.
Indeed I would prefer if people not do this, even when they are right. Trolls, too, are people with feelings that can be hurt, and I don't think anybody would want to be called a troll.
Then you're really out on a limb here, since you'll have trouble finding support for a "don't call people trolls no matter what" rule. By supporting that view, you can't really claim you're acting in the interest of the consensus formed on the policy.
There was no accusation of you being abusive. You're reading too much into it.
You did say I had a low EQ and made the association between the two, so I just read the implication and cried buckets of tears over it (yes, that was sarcasm, but with a point to demonstrate that there are very fragile people). Since your alleged goal is to avoid offending people at all costs, you should have been more careful with your language and that would be a violation of your interpretation of the policy.
I apologise if it does. I guess it was naïve of me to assume that you would find this revelation as useful as I did.
And this is exactly why such an undefined rule is silly, because you can never know when you're going to offend someone.
Here you are making the assumption that I would have placed myself in the 99%. However, I never did. You are also making the assumption that I think the 1% are necessarily bad people, just because they have a low EQ.
So then where do you place yourself then? When people say something like "I never said X" and then refuse to clarify what their stance is, it usually means that the "assumption" was dead on.
Unfortunately, there is no deterministic algorithm that universally classifies any statement as either a "personal attack" or not.
Which is why it should be defined soley in terms of the reason it was created--to punish seriously counter-productive behavior. Defining it in terms of the general population instead of Wikipedia producitivity makes no sense.
I didn't say you don't have a life. You're reading into it again. The term "real life" is usually used to refer to social interaction with other people outside the Internet and computers. I'm sure you have a life, but I wouldn't be surprised if it's primarily an online/Internet life.
Saying someone's life is primarily online is what is usually meant by saying someone doesn't have a life, don't try to weasel your way out of this one. In any case, that kind of accusation, regardless of what you call it, is typically considered insulting. Again, I'm totally crying buckets of tears here.
If you're going to be a spokesperson for EQ, personal attacks and whanot, it would help to have a better understanding of what a personal attack is.
I don't think many people here will disagree that the average EQ is quite a bit lower on Wikipedia than in the general population (nor do I think many people will consider that a bad thing). It is no surprise that the average EQ on [[Wikipedia talk:No personal attacks]] is even lower.
Now how would you be able to make an asessment like that unless you're suggesting you have a high EQ yourself? You seem to like to pull all kinds of figures out of your ass without substantiating them. I also have to wonder though, if what you say is true--that most Wikipedians have a low EQ, then what's the point of a rule that they couldn't understand?
In fact, in my previous posting I actually agreed with you that it's not clear what constitutes a personal attack -- except to people with a high enough EQ that they have an intuitive feel for it.
So then would you think that the only admins enforcing the rule would be required to have a high EQ? Because that doesn't seem to be the case.
Unfortunately humans aren't logical, much less predictable and algorithmic. Especially whether a true statement is seen as offensive/an insult/a "personal attack" is incredibly unpredictable.
How much a certain type of behavior contributes negatively to Wikipedia progress is something which can be logically and objectively analyzed. You keep thinking in terms of personal offense, rather than the resulting producitivity (or lack thereof) of said personal offense, which IS measurable.
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On 7/2/05, Timwi timwi@gmx.net wrote:
David Gerard wrote:
[[Wikipedia:No personal attacks]]
I've taken a look at the page and I quite agree with Nathan that it fails to define what a personal attack is. 99% of people have an intuitive feel for what constitutes a personal attack; they have the empathy to understand that certain remarks can hurt another person, even when the objective contents of the statement are true (e.g. "you're a hypocrite"). [[Wikipedia:No personal attacks]] assumes this of the reader.
Unfortunately trying to solve hurt feelings purely on the sender's side is an intractable problem. There will always be people who *want* to hurt you, and eventually someone will write some software that can participate in an online community and insult people... Judging by some of the weirdos who have successfully hurt the feelings of people in our community, the bar for intelligence for such software would be pretty low.
I think the only solution for this, long term, is learn to apply the internet protocol mantra to our social interactions: "Be liberal in what you accept, and conservative in what you send".
That is, while it is my responsibility as a good intentioned writer to select words which have a reduced risk of hurting people, it is your responsibility as a reader to try not to be offended or hurt. If you are hurt, we've both failed.. the blame would, if measured, be split based on how everyone else would have felt in that situation.
There are some people on Wikipedia with very thin skins, who are quite eager to feel 'attacked' by every word they could possibly interpret as critical. I believe these users are as much of a problem as users who casually throw around hurtful comments.
This is not a problem unique to Wikipedia, but I haven't seen it well solved anywhere.. It seems that Internet communities tend to cluster into two major camps based on the two obvious solutions to the problem: Nanny-moderated, and nearly unmoderated. In nanny-moderated forms people are kicked off for a simple polite disagreement, if they are unlucky enough to disagree with one of the hypersensitive who is also well liked. This becomes fairly likely because such forums tend to fill with the hypersensitive. The other type of community is the effectively unmoderated, in this everyone is expected to have a very thick skin and and working kill-file. Sensitive users find it nearly impossible to participate since the forum becomes filled with the low-EQ people that can't participate elsewhere.
Because of Wikipedia's nature and roots, we do have a lot of low EQ participants who are very valuable. As a result, we have probably the lowest nanny-moderation amount of any general audience community of our size. I think this is a really good thing.
I think going forward we need to adopt policies with respect to uncivil language which realize that communication is two way street, and which work to: 1) Identify people whom enjoy hurting others and encourage them to leave. 2) Assist well meaning but ill spoken or hot tempered wikipedians in speaking in a way which is less hurtful and more constructive. 3) Assist overly sensitive users in adapting to an online environment which lacks the softening effect indirect communication provides with voice or face to interactions. 4) And when overly sensitive and emotionally insensitive editors meet and have a dispute, we should just step in and separate them... and not unreasonably punish one side over the other.
Can someone suggest a rephrasing of "Be liberal in what you accept, and conservative in what you send" which will not get misunderstood as speaking of anything political?
On 7/2/05, Gregory Maxwell gmaxwell@gmail.com wrote:
Unfortunately trying to solve hurt feelings purely on the sender's side is an intractable problem.
Another quick point... One of the biggest problems communicating across cultures and languages is that the 'non-offensive' form generally doesn't translate well. What I've found is that if you are communicating in a language you speak imperfectly or to people who speak your language imperfectly, it rapidly becomes very difficult to avoid offense at the sender's side.
Since our entire project exists across many languages, and each language may span many cultures, our behaviours need to be mindful of these issues.
Gregory Maxwell stated for the record:
Can someone suggest a rephrasing of "Be liberal in what you accept, and conservative in what you send" which will not get misunderstood as speaking of anything political?
How about "be forgiving to others and strict with yourself"?
Note that even if one were to accept Postel's maxim as a divine commandment, one would not be required to be a cooperative victim.
Gregory Maxwell wrote:
Can someone suggest a rephrasing of "Be liberal in what you accept, and conservative in what you send" which will not get misunderstood as speaking of anything political?
Perhaps: "Be careful in what you say, and generous in what you construe." Though I think the topics are already covered by Wikipedia:Civility and Wikipedia:Assume_good_faith, respectively.
On Sat, Jul 02, 2005 at 01:55:34PM -0400, Gregory Maxwell wrote:
Can someone suggest a rephrasing of "Be liberal in what you accept, and conservative in what you send" which will not get misunderstood as speaking of anything political?
"Be tolerant in what you accept, and careful in what you send."
But the bit about trying neither to hurt others nor to be hurt works, too.
Be sympathetic in your reading and careful in your writing.
Theo
On Sat, 2 Jul 2005 18:55:34 +0100, Gregory Maxwell wrote:
Can someone suggest a rephrasing of "Be liberal in what you accept, and conservative in what you send" which will not get misunderstood as speaking of anything political?
Figuring out which accounts are the sockpuppets or Ip addresses of banned users is inexact and there may be collateral damage when a new user mimics the editing style and tactics of a banned user. The ban of a user regularly using sockpuppets or editing anonymously is in effect a ban of all users who are edit in the same way. Obviously if it quacks like a duck, swims like a duck and flies like a duck, it might be a grebe and not the original duck at all. Likewise the real duck might be sanctioned for what the grebe has done.
Fred
On Jun 30, 2005, at 4:06 AM, Nathan J. Yoder wrote:
This is not meant to imply that I attribute any substance to this complaint whatsoever, and personally I would say "cheers to Bishonen, keep up the good work." But anyway.
Of course you would say cheers, you're the one who created the injunction and in the process violated Wikipedia policy by personally attacking me in the injunction itself. It's too bad there's no one to regulate the arbitrators.
Also, it appears bishonen, out of her personal vendetta, has renewed my block:
Nathan, I blocked you for 24 hours at 0:15 UTC. You're perhaps not aware that the clock is automatically reset if you try to edit without being logged in to your usual account. I've noticed here that that has happened several times now. (Only the latest time it's happened will be recorded on the blocklist.) In other words, you're lengthening your block yourself. Provided you stop doing it now, I'm willing to unblock you 24 hours after my original block, as a gesture of good will. Bishonen | talk 30 June 2005 08:02 (UTC)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/User_talk:Njyoder
I'd say a gesture of good will would to be to stop lying and to remove the block since it was motivated by a personal vendetta.
She didn't even check the ips and I'm not sure she even has the authority to do that in the first place. Go ahead, check the ips yourself, they two are not the same. Admins most certainly should not be blocking ips and extending blocks without checking them first. It doesn't even make sense anyway, why would I post during a block with the same ip?
Notice how she didn't provide a link to whatever account was supposedly doing the editing and what article it was editing. Yes, totally honest admins make an accusation of circumventing a ban without providing a link to where it was supposedly cirumvented!
Also, I have to wonder if David Gerard, the one who created the injunction, is ever going to bother abiding by the no personal attacks rule himself and actually bother to qualify what counts as a personal attack. He won't bother since he knows he's guilty of it himself.
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Aha, I figured out why it's doing it. I just hit "edit page" while still logged in as njyoder and the thing automatically renews the block whenever I do that. This is what happens when you upgrade to beta version of software. Try a test block on another account and you'll see it will automatically renew the block even if you're logged in as the same user who was originally blocked. That's a bug or some strange misfeature.
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It certainly sounds like a bug. There are many bugs associated with the upgrade to MediaWiki 1.5 (and also many invaluable new features). The developers will obviously work to fix any problems, but that will take time. I suggest if you don't want your block to be extended automagically by the software, stop trying to edit until the block has expired.
~Mark Ryan
On 6/30/05, Nathan J. Yoder njyoder@energon.org wrote:
Aha, I figured out why it's doing it. I just hit "edit page" while still logged in as njyoder and the thing automatically renews the block whenever I do that. This is what happens when you upgrade to beta version of software. Try a test block on another account and you'll see it will automatically renew the block even if you're logged in as the same user who was originally blocked. That's a bug or some strange misfeature.
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