Unfortunately sites like AVfM and its ilk are something that we really do have limited ability to directly address on Wikipedia, even though it's something that has a direct effect on the retention of our editors. I've made AVfM and similar sites way more times than I would like to remember, as have a lot of other editors who work in the topic area, and many women editors who identify their gender in general. Even though people can usually mitigate the effect it has on Wikipedia's content, I don't think anyone has come up with a remotely effective way to mitigate the effect it has on the targeted editor. I know quite a few people who have left the projects over stuff like this, and can honestly say the only reason I'm still around is because of the number of good friends I've made on the projects who I can rely on for emotional* support when I need to, as well as the fact that I occupy a position of significant societal privilege that lets me take off-wiki harassment and threats less seriously than people who aren't in my position can.
I've thought for years that the problem of off-wiki harassment through this and other means is something that the Foundation will eventually need to come up with some solution that at least partly mitigates its effects, or we'll just understandably lose droves of good editors active in topic areas targeted by it. I don't know what that solution is, although I found Lane Raspberry's recent IdeaLab proposal ( https://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Grants:IdeaLab/Community_support_services) that tried to address the issue to be interesting, and would encourage anyone with interesting or novel ideas about how to potentially help with this kind of issue bring them up. I can't guarantee any eventual funding decision, but even if you have an idea that needs monetary support to work, I know this kind of thing is of both interest to the Foundation and of interest to volunteers serving on WMF grant-making advisory bodies. (Or alternately, even if you just have an idea but don't have the bandwidth to help carry out a project about it, I'd encourage you to bring it up, since other interested people can connect with you about it and help you refine it, or even just run with it themselves.)
Best, Kevin Gorman
*And sometimes, other significant forms of support too. Emily/Keilana, someone I've met in real life once, recently spent well over an hour trying to contact local emergency services for me in a situation when my roomates and I needed to do so but couldn't safely do so. After I had asked for help but before I had fully explained what was going on, my wifi blipped off, and she was literally calling me within six second of me poofing from the internet.. and then spent a huge amount of time and frustration trying to resolve the situation. I can't really put in to words the sort of feeling provoked by having a Wikimedian who I know almost entirely from online collaboration willing to drop what she was doing and spend that much time late at night trying to help us with a situation of that nature.
On Wed, Jul 2, 2014 at 7:38 PM, Marie Earley eiryel@hotmail.com wrote:
I placed an ANI about the Voice for Men article and the subsequent comments. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:ANI#Off-wiki_comments.2C_possible_mu... The result being:
"We cannot take action for off-Wiki discussions like this. However, an
"announcement" on WP:AN about something like this would have been a wise idead instead of ANI (but we all know now) - that we we can keep an eye on things. Attacking Wikipedia would be a detriment to their cause - so is potentially libelous statements about the Foundation's employees - dumb, dumb, dumb thing to do. However, by posting about it here, they know that we know. Be vigilant :-) "
I suppose what it does mean is that if insults are hurled about female editors off-wiki we can post announcements in WP:AN which begin,
"Based on this ruling
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:ANI#Off-wiki_comments.2C_possible_mu... I to inform the community about..."
I also had some nice posts sent to me on my talk page.
P.S. I clicked on the link for WP:AN and found this little gem https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:AN#Topic_ban_proposal_for_Gibson_Fly... Depressing but at least it's not all one-way traffic.
Marie
Date: Wed, 2 Jul 2014 18:46:19 -0400 From: carolmooredc@verizon.net
To: gendergap@lists.wikimedia.org Subject: Re: [Gendergap] Moderation and the future of Gendergap-L
Re: the below, yes, i was blocked in a situation I thought was biased compared to other blocks I've seen. (I didn't mention that originally it was a six month block but the community of mostly guys thought that was grossly unfair and it was reduced to two weeks.)
However, in general wikipedia is not half as bad as the Men's rights site you mentioned. And in Wikipedia there are "Community Sanctions" on too much conflict in men's rights areas. In fact we just had some problems with an individual with that bias and he was reminded of the sanctions and was stopped.
In general women tend to avoid a lot of issues in the larger world because we don't like conflict. And that's understandable given that when guys do it with each other its considered a team sport. But when women jump in the middle, even if they know the rules (which we don't always), they usually are going to be given a harder time, expected to work harder and do better to get half the respect. That's the nature of the reality we are trying to change throughout the world and wikipedia is just one part of that larger world.
We don't have to accept all the rules but we can't change them unless we have some engagement. Even if the engagement is "these rules are male-created and reflect male values/attitudes/etc. and we want and equal say in creating the rules."
To understand Wikipedia dispute resolution you really have to study this page: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:Dispute_resolution
Except in the worst cases of abuse, you don't need to go to ANI. When the problem is guys ignoring you or reverting you too much or whatever it is they are doing cause they think they can get away with it (including if that reason is that you are female), there are a variety of options. I've used them all at different times, with more or less success depending on circumstances.
CM
On 7/1/2014 10:03 PM, Marie Earley wrote:
Gosh, I did make a pig's ear out of it didn't I. I didn't realize the list had two Sarahs on it.
Third time lucky....
In a discussion about off-Wiki mentions of editors, I was making a comparison between Carol Moore's suspension which she mentioned here http://lists.wikimedia.org/pipermail/gendergap/2014-June/004397.html in answer to SlimVirgin (aka Sarah), in which Carol said:
"questioning behavior too aggressively off wikipedia evidently remains a
no no. I was once blocked for a week for asking an editor whether his overwhelming history of editing in articles about bondage of females was related to his obvious and annoying harassment of me on a noticeboard, after which I mentioned the issue on the Wikia Feminism page which I thought was a part of Wikipedia (duh). The latter evidently was the bigger "no no"."
...and some of the stuff in an article on A Voice for Men's website.
The third paragraph of this message http://lists.wikimedia.org/pipermail/gendergap/2014-June/004409.html therefore should have read (correction in capital letters):
I entered "Wikipedia" and "male rights activists" and got this
http://www.avoiceformen.com/feminism/fighting-wikipedia-corruption-censorshi... which has a comments section at the bottom with current Wikipedia members mentioning other Wikipedia editors by name and talk of a great conspiracy at work against them, if CAROL was suspended for her off-site comments then how is this permissible?
And LtPowers point that Wikipedia may simply not know is correct. Perhaps, editors just have to run the gauntlet / try and recruit more women / be a bit more pro-active about looking for and reporting off-wiki activities which break the rules and not just leave it to moderators. With that in mind I have reported the article to WP:ANI https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:Administrators%27_noticeboard/Incide...
Marie
Date: Mon, 30 Jun 2014 20:31:42 -0700 From: slimvirgin@gmail.com To: gendergap@lists.wikimedia.org Subject: Re: [Gendergap] Moderation and the future of Gendergap-L
On Mon, Jun 30, 2014 at 8:22 PM, Jeremy Baron jeremy@tuxmachine.com wrote:
On Jun 30, 2014 11:14 PM, "Sarah" slimvirgin@gmail.com wrote:
Jeremy, which quote is this? I recall someone on this list saying that
someone called Sarah was suspended (unclear what's meant) for an off-wiki comment. (Or something like that; I can't find the original.) I can't think of how that might apply to me, and Sarah Stierch has said it doesn't apply to her.
See this message from earlier on this thread:
On Jun 29, 2014 8:30 PM Eastern, "Marie Earley" eiryel@hotmail.com wrote:
My apologies it was Carol Moore responding to Sarah Stierch earlier on,
I mentioned it from memory, http://lists.wikimedia.org/pipermail/gendergap/2014-June/004397.html
If you follow Marie's link and then dig up the original message quoted at the link from "Sarah" you'll find it was SlimVirgin not Sarah Stierch (Marie apparently misattributed).
I haven't read all the mails, just did a bit of digging .
Okay, thanks, Jeremy. I don't follow what it's about, but the original comment wasn't made by me or about me, and the comment that seemed to be about Sarah Stierch was a misunderstanding.
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