Probably the best place to put a plug would be the in templates used by Huggle. "If you think this warning is inappropriate, report it [[here]]" That way people that insist on using off-putting templates in edge cases are automatically directing any offended parties to the attention of people who will respond to there concern more carefully. Maybe that could short-circuit the escalating defensiveness that often occurs between newbies and patrollers.
BirgitteSB
I've never been the recipient of such attention (no surprise really, 10 years experience does learn you, not that I don't get into trouble...just more complicated trouble) but it should probably be treated like a bot with feedback to the owner of the bot, or in this case to whoever is using Huggle. These semi-mechanized responses nearly always produce mixed results.
It's a Windows program so I can't even try it out.
They do have an irc channel where issues might be taken up.
Fred