It's interesting to note that the response to Flutternutter's criticism has been generally negative, with the exception of Riskers comments. Several other female editors have supported Drmies, or at least not reacted well to the notion that his birthday note was sexist. I can see Fluffernutter's point, of course (and find that part of the birthday note at a minimum strange), but I wonder if there aren't more obvious and serious examples with which to spend ones time.