I strongly recommend not discussing this any more on the mailing list.
It is pointless.
RK, you need to take it through the mediation process and if that
fails, through the arbitration process. Ranting on the mailing list
is not helpful.
We used to talk about such things a lot on the mailing list, in the
old days, because I had the role of making decisions about such
things, and this is where I hang out. But. Those days are long since
past, and the ArbCom does their work on the wiki.
So don't bother bringing interpersonal problems to the list in most
cases, it's the wrong forum for it.
--Jimbo