I read Cunc as commenting only on your histrionic
style. In your first
sentence that I quote above, you characterize his complaints as "nonsense".
There are people and cultures for whom that alone is mortally offensive, and
yet you toss it off as if you think everybody will just automatically
agree with you.
Yes the issue is often more one of attitude rather than substance. Really it
comes down to respect. Dissing folks is hazardous.
Fred