On Sun, May 18, 2008 at 6:26 AM, Thomas Dalton thomas.dalton@gmail.com wrote:
I would say you could use her real full name on-wiki, but only if doing so significantly aids the project in some way (and that seems unlikely). All else being equal, there is no reason not to follow her wishes.
Agreed. It is polite to refer to people as they wish to be addressed, within reasonable bounds. Deliberately using someone's real name instead of their chosen handle is uncivil unless there's good reason to do so.
-Matt