I tend to think that the only thing that could be automatic in this case is when the article is created, and someone puts it into [[category:Living People]], then a {{blp}} template pops into the talk page; there would be no automatic deletion of the {{blp}} template. And yes, nodding to WODDUP, false deletions from the category are hard to deal with.
{{blp}} could go into anyone's talk page. I would not mind at all if it went into mine, especially since someone deleted it. _______ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/User:Brewhaha@edmc.net In keeping with about eighty percent of my USENET history, I will be using the freenet.edmonton.ab.ca domain, which maps to the same Internet Protocol numbers.