Jim Schuler wrote:
On 12/6/06, Puppy puppy@killerchihuahua.com wrote:
Apology and clarification much appreciated. This is at the heart of the issue, I think - many men are intimidating without realizing they are doing so. They even "turn the tables" in their heads - "would I be intimidated if someone did that?" decide the answer is no, its not intimidating - yet that does not help, it is not germane. Because they are not a women wondering if its intimidating.
-kc-
"and *some *decide the answer is no" I would have accepted.
As I had qualified with "many men" I did not see the need for a further qualifier. I apologize if my post read that I was making a statement about all, or most, men.
-kc-