I renamed [[Wikipedia:Requests for de-adminship]] to [[Wikipedia:Requests for review of admin actions]].
I hope that this will lessen the general tension between "old hands" who have sysop rights and "newbies" who don't.
The idea is to focus on the action itself, not the actor. And the remedy if any would be to reconsider the decision, which is very easy and non-threatening.
Thanks to Caroline (MySecretLondon) for sparking this idea.
Kindly ol' Uncle Ed