If this is going to become such an issue, might I propose that, to avoid debate in the future, we switch to UseRealNames (e.g., your handle is FirstnameLastname, or FMLastname)?
Not practical. We have made the choice, have thousands of registered users, can't switch now. Requiring this from new users only would be unfair towards existing ones and create lots of conflicts. Besides, you can bet there's plenty of people in our userbase right now who would be fiercely opposed to such a policy.
Regards,
Erik