From: wikien-l-bounces(a)Wikipedia.org
[mailto:wikien-l-bounces@Wikipedia.org] On Behalf Of Philip Welch
How come we're blaming her all of a sudden?
We're the ones
who screwed up. The predominant culture on Wikipedia is
really good at pissing off good-faith contributors
sometimes--I'm often loath to ask others to contribute
because I know how they'll ultimately be treated.
Here's someone who openly states on her page that she wants
to help Wikipedia, but she wants the personal attacks against
her removed before that happens. If you step back and look at
it from her point of view, and not through the lens of the
Wikipedia culture, is that really so unreasonable?
I know that we can't make people be nice, but I can't help feeling that if
the culture changed a bit there would be positive feedback all along the
line. Not a vicious circle, but I dunno, some happier name.
New editors arrive and find long-established members behaving in a less than
polite manner. And getting away with it. Naturally they take this as par for
the course and retaliate in kind. Or less than kind, if you smoke my drift.
Now, my feeling is that the overwhelming majority of Wikipedians are polite,
friendly, hard-working people, and there are many here I enjoy working with.
But there's a few...
And yes, you can probably include me amongst that few. When I find someone
sinking the boot into me, I tend to apply a bit of needling in return.
Peter (Skyring)