All this "he said, I said" stuff is off-topic. This list is about how to improve the Wikipedia.
For example, mild-mannered Martin meandered into a muddy morass, and moaned:
I see that you have decided to branch out from claims that I am
"harrassing" and "censoring" you and decided to move back to the familiar territory of accusing me of being a Nazi and anti-Semite.
If you have personal problems, settle yourselves or ask someone for help. But keep it off the list.
Or else, instead of doing something dramatic like "resigning" I just might do something practical and start "moderating" the list. I have the password, and I /can/ set the list software so it holds all or some messages for review.
Don't make me do something drastic.