http://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Don%27t_be_a_dick
To blow my own horn a bit, this was discussed on my LiveJournal a bit a while ago:
http://www.livejournal.com/users/reddragdiva/143397.html?thread=1663269#t166... http://www.livejournal.com/users/reddragdiva/143397.html
- d.