Forgetting and forgiving is hard when everyone still feels that /they/ are the wronged person. So I'll suggest a simple course of action for RK and EoT, since they seem to be the main protagonists.
- Each writes ONE message to the wiki list explaining:
a. Why they are behaving as they are: b. Why they perceive the need to act as they have. c. What regrets if any they have for their behaviour.
I am fed up with this mailing list churning out all this yelling.
I no longer know who did what, who said what, and who is to blame.