Vee Brandt is not being given a 'free pass' to edit, he is being allowed to make useful comments about concerns he has about his own article. I am certain that if he were to make any abusive edits to [[Talk: Daniel Brandt]], they would be reverted. However, reverting his edits to the _talk page_ of the article about *himself* when he's merely expressing concerns about an article that could affect his PERSONAL LIFE directly is simply unfair and isn't going to help anybody.
I endorse this viewpoint.
Just call it the exception WP:HUMANITARIANGROUNDS
It is the right thing to do morally, as it violates very basic standards of fairness to discuss a person so directly, yet deny them the opportunity to defend themselves *in the same forum*.
It is the right thing to do pragmatically, as otherwise accusations of sockpuppetry fly back and forth.
It is the right thing to do from the standpoint of dispute resolution, as it allows at least the (admittedly small) chance of developing some mutual understanding from the discussion.
It is the right thing to do from the standpoint of minimizing harm, as otherwise the situation looks like something out of Kafka ("Anyone can write accusations against you, but *you* aren't even allowed to speak in your defense, since we don't like you and we 0wnz ur bi0").
If nothing else, the obvious ill-will that is generated from not even being able to defend oneself should make the choice clear.