From: "Toby Bartels" toby+wikipedia@math.ucr.edu
Alex756 wrote:
Toby Bartels wrote:
Alex756 wrote:
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If these groups, whatever they are (you mentioned NAMI) think that they can stop us from being marginalised by using new terminology, then they are badly mistaken.
This is a good point, but perhaps they can get a few points for trying. ...
I don't appreciate it when organisations (much less organisations that claim to represent my interests) try to change words,
My father was a "service provider," otherwise known as a psychologist, and he was very distressed when these terms came in. He told me that he felt that these groups were trying to create voices for individuals who were not even represented and did not necessarily agree with the points set forth by these groups lobbying for social change, however the administrators of the agency he worked for actually wrote memos to all the "service providers" about using the correct terminology. They were forbidden to call their clients by any other term than consumers! Most of my father's clients were very confused by the terminology and could not understand what the problem was as the term "client" did not seem pejorative to them at all.
I'll keep NAMI's opinion in mind; and I hope that you'll keep in mind /my/ opinion, the opinion of somebody that doesn't want to be referred to except by terms that literally (or figuratively) actually mean something that actually applies to me.
I agree with you, actually, and I think that we have demonstrated a problem that may exist with any so-called official naming policy or a politically sensitive approach that makes sure that no one is ever allowed to use a name that someone else might have a problem with. Those who might yell the loudest and say they represent a group may only represent a small part of that group. They might even call their decision making consensus decisionmaking, and it may be so in that group, but the group in the context of a larger community may be mistaken about who they represent and what their "policies" are meant to accomplish. It might be better to have fewer policies and more dialogue.
Agencies, institutions and groups get "captured" all the time by forces that may appear to be democratic and egalitarian in origin, but then turn to represent small minorities that have some specific agenda. It is important to keep the process of dialogue open and flexible and to keep any procedures to a minimum (bet you never thought you would here that from a lawyer) so that an institution can continue to respond to its developing community, otherwise it will likely become irrelevant in some manner (even though it may continue to exist long after it has become locked into particular behaviour patterns).
Alex756