It seems like there is a pretty strong consensus on this list, WJohnson - its custom and reasonable to expect editors not to use the real names of other editors who request otherwise, and reasonable to demand that editors who refuse to follow that custom agree to do so before they edit further. FT2 has repeated that the block on Eleemosynary will be lifted if he/she agrees not to repeat the real names of pseudonymous editors.
What further object do you hope to achieve?
Nathan