That doesn't qualify as harassment I'm afraid. **** No it doesn't, but by the fourth message the exchange did qualify as harassment. After the second I requested no further contact.
Perhaps you inhabit a universe where it's socially acceptable for a stranger to address a woman by her name without identifying himself, and to continue sending her messages late into the night after she's insisted that he stop. Perhaps you also live in a universe that does not recognize the elementary courtesy of asking her permission before reposting part of an unwanted conversation to a public list, devoid of context, and attempting to pass judgement on it.
You owe me an apology. A big one.
-Durova