Ray Saintonge wrote:
Fred Bauder wrote:
If you chose to be roadkill, so be it. I consider it a minor matter. That so much ink was wasted on the issue has little or nothing to do with you. Just keep on editing and enjoy contributing.
We must not only support our productive contributors and administrators, our workers, we must also make it plain that doing so is a priority. Protecting the "right" to link to critical posts on external websites, is pretty low on the list of priorities. However, let''s assume you are a good editor and you can assume we are trying our best and had nothing against you personally and go from there.
It IS a minor matter, but for the fact that a small gang of obsessives wants to flex its muscles by insisting on its right to impose discipline on anyone who links to a site they don't like, and then support their actions with the utterly spurious excuse that it somehow protects people. If you want these users to assume that you are trying your best, you must also assume that they are trying their best, and be willing to treat them as equals. If you choose to block someone solely for linking to such sites it's you, not them, that is making it a personal issue, smarmy consolings notwithstanding.
You must know by now that very few of us will even think of linkig to such sites, not even those of us who see such hard-line attitudes as a form of bullying. Had you chosen a more pragmatic approach, the arguments would have ceased long ago. People with a legitimate reason for making such links would sleep peacefully; thoe who link with attitude would face the wrath of the whole community. Those who make such links out of bad faith are unlikely to confine thier activity to only one single act of bad faith.
Ec
Very well stated!