Thank you all for answering my questions, and for your advice, particulary Ed Poor.
I have apologized to Ambi for my original comments. They were not *meant* to be a personal attack, however, if that is how they have been read, then that is what they are, and so an apology is in order.
I have also simply expressed my disappointment with Ambi's comments, and want to leave it there. I just expected more of an arbitrator.
So that is that :-)
Dan100
--- Anthere anthere9@yahoo.com wrote:
Kat Walsh a écrit: All involved parties should
cool off, apologize for the intemperate words, and
deal with the
issues that underlie your barbs rather than the
namecalling.
-Kat [[User:Mindspillage]]
Nod. Exactly.
It is unfortunately real that some of us (me included sometimes) resort to using bad words to call others when the pressure is too high. But that happens. Best is to give it a few hours, feel the regret build up, apology and try to put the whole thing aside. Not always easy. But the best.
I would even go as far as saying that after a while... you get to realise some people just blow up this way from time to time. Then, you somehow get used to it. But generally, abusive use of insults get oneself bad reputation.
ant
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