on 6/27/07 1:28 AM, Ray Saintonge at saintonge@telus.net wrote:
Assuming good faith requires that we attempt to understand where the speaker is coming from before taking ooffence to his comments.
And this requires lowering our in-place defenses; asking ourselves, honestly, "what the hell am I defending - and against what - and why?"
Many times, the only thing in our way is ourselves.
Marc