[Gendergap] Moderation?

[Sandra ordonez]

I think we need to explain something that may be common sense for some but
not others, but I think its worth explaining.

When you are dealing with subjects that touch upon sexism, racism,
discrimination, etc. This is not a philosophical conversation... This is a
conversation that triggers emotional responses in people because its a
reality for them. As a result, we need to focus on the issue here: closing
the gender gap versus touching upon topics that may trigger emotional
conversations that having nothing to do with Wikipedia.

Additionally, most women have their own opinion about why gender gaps in the
world, and there is an entire field dedicated to this, its called feminist
studies. The field is quite extensive, and I encourage you to read about the
different types of feminist that exist, ranging from anarchist feminist to
capitalist feminist - all that have different opinions about why sexism
exists.

I didn't join this list because I'm confused of why sexism in the world
exists, nor did I join this list because I need a therapy outlet. I, like
many women, joined this list because we want to focus on something practical
- closing the gender gap on Wikipedia.

Let me give you example (and Miguelito, I am not trying to signal you out,
but just as an example.) I was born in NY, but half of my family is from
Spain and spent 1/3 of my youth living there. When I hear a Spanish man
start talking about sexism in the US without analyzing his country first,
this pushes my buttons. I am not saying one country is more sexist than the
other, or that these conversations should not be had, but not here. When I
want to have existential conversations like this I find a feminist meetup,
or have coffee with my friends. This is not the forum, and will only cause
long debates, and take away from our main goal (that we do have power over)
- the gender gap in Wikipedia.

Also, FYI, remember that when you are talking about sexism, you are also
indirectly touching upon things related to glass ceiling, sexual
objectification, rape, domestic violence, etc. You have to be really
sensitive, particularly if you are a man.  However, I love the fact that men
are trying to learn about this, and we can definitely provide with
literature recommendations. In the US, I love Alice Walker, and in Spain,
Amelia Valcarcel. Keep on exploring these issues on your own time. I think
its awesome, and if you need any direction, let me know. I can definitely
refer you to more virutal homes where these conversations are more than
appropriate.

Sandy
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