[Foundation-l] Assume good faith

[Anthere]

I have a memory.

of another letter, written 2 years ago, by Jimbo.

And also talking about love.


And I thought that Brion email just contained the exact bit of truth, 
the essence of the community.

I put it there so as to avoid it getting lost and forgotten. 
http://wikimediafoundation.org/wiki/Home

Thanks Brion

Ant


and Brion Vibber wrote:
> I love you guys, seriously. All of you.
> 
> And that's not just the eggnog talking... Wikipedia and all our 
> Wikimedia projects are, when you think about it, *pretty darn awesome* 
> and they exist because some *pretty darn awesome people* are working 
> together.
> 
> Those pretty awesome people include YOU!
> 
> YOU are pretty darn awesome!
> 
> 
> But we do have a bit of a collective anger management problem.
> 
> There's lots of flamefests on the lists, on talk pages, on village 
> pumps, in edit wars, in irc, in private mail...
> 
> I'm no saint either; I believe I used words such as "idiot" in a certain 
> thread a few days ago which I really oughtn't to have.
> 
> 
> Well, there's no point blaming anyone or saying anything specific here. 
> I just want to pass on a big sloppy group hug love letter to all y'all 
> Wikimedians out there.
> 
> 
> Remember, folks, a community like this functions because its members are 
> willing and able to communicate to reach some end goal.
> 
> If you're about to type off another e-mail or talk page note in anger, 
> please... get off the computer for a second. Get a beverage of your 
> choice, take a walk, eat a cookie, make a sandwich, tell a joke, stretch 
> your legs, anything -- just cool off a second.
> 
> When you get back to the computer, pretend for a second that the other 
> person might have a point. Even if they are wrong, consider whether what 
> you're typing will lead to a useful conversation or if you know it'll 
> just make them mad and provoke a further negative response.
> 
> 
> The worst thing you or I can do is to assume the other person is a jerk 
> who refuses to listen to reason and, therefore, we can and should ignore 
> anything they say.
> 
> I know I'm often guilty of assuming bad faith and taking on an automatic 
> defensive position.
> 
> What say we all give the opposite a try when we notice ourselves slipping?
> 
> HHHHUUUUUGGGGSSSSSSSSS
> 
> love,
> brion