I would second Risker's call.
Let me rephrase my words earlier. My apologies, I wrote it past midnight in my time zone and I might have been half awake.
To put in context, if the concern is addressed to affcom, it should be addressed via an affiliate executive as authorised by their board committee. If it is addressed to a Wikimedia staff, it should be to their line manager or a higher rank position. If there is an ombudsperson or ethics committee hotline (or email), that is the right forum to complain.
In a nutshell, in a professional setting, telling private level matters in a wide public space is totally out of order. We should observe dequorum.
Thanks.
Kind regards,
Butch