There are several issues I want to comment:
1-First of all. Do you have permission from Gerard to
publish your conversation? Maybe there is something
confidential in it, Did you care to check?
2- Scholarship is not award or trophy, bear that in mind.
3- People are expected to come here and learn, communicate,
etc. that's why a same person gets scholarship,
4- No one's wife got scholarship because of being wife of
someone. They probably are prominent contributors too.
5- Check my first question and answer that. (Emphasizing)
Best
Sorry, but when I read "No regular Wikimedian
get any scholarship", I stopped reading.
It is not only a lie, but also very unfair to all the
extremely great Wikimedians that attended and made great
contributions in Wikimania, and also the volunteers that
have helped now and in the past reviewing and evaluated
thousand of applications in the Scholarship Committee.