Yes. This is the crux of the matter, the big question: "I'm not sure we should store this kind of data on Wikidata."
I disagree with "Point 2 and 3 are for the BLT community to solve." In the interest of transparency, Gerard, myself, and BLT came to and are coming to the Wikidata community for assistance in solving this problem. I'm exhaustedly saying we had previously received consensus (with the understanding that at some point a new property that was more ideal could be used).
The "squatting" on the property was because BLT had a problem and Gerard and I were trying to provide an automated solution using the semantic metadata held in Wikidata. It was also an experiment in integrating Wikidata into a Wikipedia project, as this is a common need for outreach projects. The solution was very effective and positive.
The two different list styles is because bulleted lists are easier for Wikipedians to edit and understand. During editathons/events and hectic periods of planning, it makes it easier to add items to the task list if it's a Wikipedia bulleted list. And then add the catalog tag to the Wikidata item, a Wikidata item that might need to be created as a result of that addition to the bulleted list. Listeria tables are there to automate the list for future use, and for the current editathon event. So the two lists are a workflow tool, which I think is okay, as they serve different needs, different end users.