Hi Lightbreather -
I know I haven't been very active lately (I wound up with sepsis,) but I am sorry to see you go. I'm not very familiar with the on-wiki side of what happened to you, but I think it should be an urgent priority for WMF to develop better tools (and a culture that uses them) to handle both on-wiki and off-wiki harassment. I wish you the best, thank you for your contributions so far, and hope there's a time in the future where changes have been made to the point that you are interested in and comfortable coming back.
Best,
Kevin Gorman