I think we need to explain something that may be common sense for some but not others, but I think its worth explaining.

When you are dealing with subjects that touch upon sexism, racism, discrimination, etc. This is not a philosophical conversation... This is a conversation that triggers emotional responses in people because its a reality for them. As a result, we need to focus on the issue here: closing the gender gap versus touching upon topics that may trigger emotional conversations that having nothing to do with Wikipedia.

Additionally, most women have their own opinion about why gender gaps in the world, and there is an entire field dedicated to this, its called feminist studies. The field is quite extensive, and I encourage you to read about the different types of feminist that exist, ranging from anarchist feminist to capitalist feminist - all that have different opinions about why sexism exists.

I didn't join this list because I'm confused of why sexism in the world exists, nor did I join this list because I need a therapy outlet. I, like many women, joined this list because we want to focus on something practical - closing the gender gap on Wikipedia.

Let me give you example (and Miguelito, I am not trying to signal you out, but just as an example.) I was born in NY, but half of my family is from Spain and spent 1/3 of my youth living there. When I hear a Spanish man start talking about sexism in the US without analyzing his country first, this pushes my buttons. I am not saying one country is more sexist than the other, or that these conversations should not be had, but not here. When I want to have existential conversations like this I find a feminist meetup, or have coffee with my friends. This is not the forum, and will only cause long debates, and take away from our main goal (that we do have power over) - the gender gap in Wikipedia.

Also, FYI, remember that when you are talking about sexism, you are also indirectly touching upon things related to glass ceiling, sexual objectification, rape, domestic violence, etc. You have to be really sensitive, particularly if you are a man.  However, I love the fact that men are trying to learn about this, and we can definitely provide with literature recommendations. In the US, I love Alice Walker, and in Spain, Amelia Valcarcel. Keep on exploring these issues on your own time. I think its awesome, and if you need any direction, let me know. I can definitely refer you to more virutal homes where these conversations are more than appropriate.

Sandy