I think my general approach to Wikipedia is not exactly typical of the
voices commonly heard on the lists, so I want to share a few thoughts here
about how I've approached civility.
Like Anne, I have never felt that punitive measures are terribly effective
at changing behavior; and like Ryan experienced, every time I've suggested
bold action in response to incivility, it's led to more drama rather than
less. (My main concern around civility has been in the context of RFAs
(administrator elections), where civility often seems to be completely
ignored; see the discussion under comment #23 here for an example:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:Requests_for_adminship/Jamesontai_2 )
So, instead of using admin tools, or reverting uncivil comments, I have come
to take what I think is a more organic approach. I generally approach an
editor who is being uncivil as a peer, rather than wielding an admin mop, or
a tone that might be interpreted as that of an authority; instead of telling
them they are being uncivil, as an objective fact, I tell them why I, as an
individual, don't like what they said, and how it seems to me to damage the
project. I have found this to be somewhat effective, though I definitely
wouldn't propose it as a magical solution to all civility issues.
A somewhat related dynamic is: in some cases, it's worthwhile to focus on
the person on the receiving end of the incivility, rather than the
perpetrator. What action will lead to an outcome that is fair and dignified
for *that* person? Sometimes, the best I've been able to do is simply
distract the aggressive party into attacking *me* instead of the other
person (who may be a newbie, or someone who is more emotionally attached to
the text than I am.) True, that doesn't end the incivility, but in a case
like that I am often satisfied knowing that I have been able to help clear
some space for a fellow editor to continue his or her work uninhibited.
I don't know if these thoughts are helpful; the situations are always pretty
delicate and unique, and I'm never sure how useful it is to generalize about
them. But I do think that it's often possible to be more effective by
thinking carefully about the desired outcome, and planning a course of
action accordingly.
-Pete
On Tue, Oct 25, 2011 at 10:25 PM, Risker <risker.wp(a)gmail.com> wrote:
Ryan, you are a kind and good person. So forgive me
for having to be
truthful here.
Not once in the history of Wikipedia has a 24-hour block for civility
problems ever resulted in the blocked editor becoming more civil. Instead,
it is almost guaranteed to result in their being *less* civil. I don't even
need to know the name of the editor you blocked to know that with each
subsequent civility block, he's become more uncivil. The reason is, I'm
afraid, terribly obvious. You've treated him like a five-year-old and made
him sit on the naughty step - and let's be honest, that barely works with
five-year-olds. Treating an adult in that way can be counted on to have an
even more dramatically perverse effect than it does on a child.
A six-month civility block may be appropriate, with a clear directive that
the block could be extended promptly with return to treating people poorly.
But a six month block for this kind of behaviour is much easier to defend
than a 24 hour one, given the fact that short blocks for civility problems
create more incivility than they've ever solved.
Now, I won't be very popular for saying this. Yes, I think that civility
is important. But attempting to discipline adults in the same way as small
children is pretty uncivil too. If the behavior is that bad, then the
person needs to be shown the door, not the naughty step.
Risker/Anne
On 26 October 2011 01:06, Ryan Kaldari <rkaldari(a)wikimedia.org> wrote:
Earlier today, a long-standing editor was
reported to AN/I for making
personal attacks. The specific attacks were the following two posts:
"You simply display your ignorance."
"Please carry on, so everyone can see what an ignorant arse you are."
As I had recently warned this same user for making personal attacks, and
they have a long history of attacking other editors (blocked 4 times
previously for personal attacks), I put a 24 hour block on their account
for violating WP:CIVIL and WP:NPA.
Even though this seems like a pretty minor slap on the wrist, my block
was quickly undone by another admin and a slew of editors then
vociferously attacked me for blocking (calling me a "petty tyrant", a
"wannabe big-dick admin", etc.).
I looked more carefully at the editor's block log and noticed that every
one of their blocks for personal attacks had been undone by another
admin (usually without much delay).
This seems to say a lot about the current culture of en.wiki. Namely,
that WP:CIVIL and WP:NPA are not taken seriously by our community (or at
least a large percentage). As civility seems to be a recurring issue in
gendergap discussions (and Sarah's recent survey), I was wondering what
people's thoughts on this issue are. Has en.wiki become a toxic
environment or am I just overreacting to normal behavior?
Ryan Kaldari
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