Hi folks,

I'm going to point out that posting sexually objectifying photos of
people of any gender or sexuality in a venue that is intended to be
equally accessible to all is still inherently discriminatory towards
women specifically. This is because the sexualized imagery occurs in
the context of widespread misogyny and sexism which includes the
sexual double standard for women, the objectification (in a very
literal sense) of women in sexual situations, and a much higher
prevalence of sexual violence against women than men (I don't know the
stats for people who don't identify as either but I'm sure they aren't
good either).

In other words, because the vast majority of humans alive today live
in cultures where sexual attitudes about women are so negative,
bringing up sex in a venue like this immediately creates a hostile
environment for women. I am repeating some of what Sumana already
wrote, just being very clear that pictures of male cheesecake or
sexualized photos of homosexual men also create a hostile environment
for women.

Other venues are a different matter. It is indeed possible to create a
safer and more welcoming environment in which sex can be discussed or
displayed with less or no harm to women, but Picture of the Day is not
it.

This is something I have to explain constantly to tech startups here
in the Bay Area, comprised often of mostly men who think there's
nothing wrong with literally covering the office walls with penis
jokes because "we're making fun of male genitalia, so that can't be
sexist towards women." These attitudes have real and lasting harm,
both for Wikimedia project participation and content, and for many
other areas of society.

-VAL