Lightbreather,

I wish you the best, and I want you to know that I appreciate your voice of reason. Hopefully, things will change in the future, and you'll return to wiki activities as no one deserves to be silenced.

Best,
Rosie

Rosie Stephenson-Goodknight
@rosiestepgood

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Date: Tue, 26 May 2015 17:35:04 -0700
From: LB <lightbreather2@gmail.com>
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Due to off-wiki harassment, I have retired. Thank you to those of you who
have been friendly with me over the past year.

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Date: Tue, 26 May 2015 17:39:37 -0700
From: Kevin Gorman <kgorman@gmail.com>
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Hi Lightbreather -

I know I haven't been very active lately (I wound up with sepsis,) but I am
sorry to see you go.  I'm not very familiar with the on-wiki side of what
happened to you, but I think it should be an urgent priority for WMF to
develop better tools (and a culture that uses them) to handle both on-wiki
and off-wiki harassment.  I wish you the best, thank you for your
contributions so far, and hope there's a time in the future where changes
have been made to the point that you are interested in and comfortable
coming back.

Best,
Kevin Gorman

On Tue, May 26, 2015 at 5:35 PM, LB <lightbreather2@gmail.com> wrote:

> Due to off-wiki harassment, I have retired. Thank you to those of you who
> have been friendly with me over the past year.
>
> Lightbreather
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Date: Tue, 26 May 2015 17:42:38 -0700
From: LB <lightbreather2@gmail.com>
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Sorry to hear that you were ill, and thank you for the kind thoughts.

Lightbreather

On Tue, May 26, 2015 at 5:39 PM, Kevin Gorman <kgorman@gmail.com> wrote:

> Hi Lightbreather -
>
> I know I haven't been very active lately (I wound up with sepsis,) but I
> am sorry to see you go.  I'm not very familiar with the on-wiki side of
> what happened to you, but I think it should be an urgent priority for WMF
> to develop better tools (and a culture that uses them) to handle both
> on-wiki and off-wiki harassment.  I wish you the best, thank you for your
> contributions so far, and hope there's a time in the future where changes
> have been made to the point that you are interested in and comfortable
> coming back.
>
> Best,
> Kevin Gorman
>
> On Tue, May 26, 2015 at 5:35 PM, LB <lightbreather2@gmail.com> wrote:
>
>> Due to off-wiki harassment, I have retired. Thank you to those of you who
>> have been friendly with me over the past year.
>>
>> Lightbreather
>>
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Date: Tue, 26 May 2015 21:49:04 -0400
From: Carol Moore dc <carolmooredc@verizon.net>
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On 5/26/2015 8:35 PM, LB wrote:
> Due to off-wiki harassment, I have retired. Thank you to those of you
> who have been friendly with me over the past year.
>
> Lightbreather
>
>
Plus all that on-wiki harassment!

I did notice something interesting and actually positive in
Lightbreather's arbitration, compared to GGTF and others I've seen.

Which is that now editors only can comment on Arbitration talk pages in
their own sections.  This lessens opportunities for drive-by harassing
taunts against, and replies against, various editors who harassers are
trying to get kicked off Wikipedia.  They have to take responsibility in
their own sections. Perhaps my screaming about "institutionalized
harassment at Arbcom" had at least this minor effect...  I hope they
keep it for all future arbitrations...

Announcement on this page, after which went into effect.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia_talk:Arbitration/Requests/Case/Lightbreather/Evidence#Sectioned_discussion_is_now_in_effect_on_this_page

Also in effect here.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia_talk:Arbitration/Requests/Case/Lightbreather/Workshop




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Date: Wed, 27 May 2015 00:06:04 -0400
From: Neotarf <neotarf@gmail.com>
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Totally understandable.  I too have also been sexually harassed and doxxed,
on at least two other sites besides WP.  The ArbCom and the WMF are well
aware of it, and have been unwilling to lift a finger against it.

There is a book about cyber harassment making the rounds: "Hate Crimes in
Cyberspace" by Danielle Keats Citron ISBN 978-0-674-36829-3 describing both
the horrible price that individuals pay and the legal underpinnings of the
problem. It's a pity WP is not in the vanguard of this movement in the same
way it has pioneered in other areas.  Instead, those who report harassment
will find themselves treated worse than the harassers.

On Tue, May 26, 2015 at 9:49 PM, Carol Moore dc <carolmooredc@verizon.net>
wrote:

> On 5/26/2015 8:35 PM, LB wrote:
>
>> Due to off-wiki harassment, I have retired. Thank you to those of you who
>> have been friendly with me over the past year.
>>
>> Lightbreather
>>
>>
>>  Plus all that on-wiki harassment!
>
> I did notice something interesting and actually positive in
> Lightbreather's arbitration, compared to GGTF and others I've seen.
>
> Which is that now editors only can comment on Arbitration talk pages in
> their own sections.  This lessens opportunities for drive-by harassing
> taunts against, and replies against, various editors who harassers are
> trying to get kicked off Wikipedia.  They have to take responsibility in
> their own sections. Perhaps my screaming about "institutionalized
> harassment at Arbcom" had at least this minor effect...  I hope they keep
> it for all future arbitrations...
>
> Announcement on this page, after which went into effect.
>
> https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia_talk:Arbitration/Requests/Case/Lightbreather/Evidence#Sectioned_discussion_is_now_in_effect_on_this_page
>
> Also in effect here.
>
> https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia_talk:Arbitration/Requests/Case/Lightbreather/Workshop
>
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Date: Wed, 27 May 2015 00:21:01 -0400
From: Neotarf <neotarf@gmail.com>
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This might also be a good time to mention the conversation about harassment
on the recent Inspire grant project.  Fourteen of the proposals were
concerned with managing harassment.  I don't believe I ever saw anyone from
the Foundation comment on this.
https://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Grants:IdeaLab/Community_discussion_on_harassment_reporting

Instead we now have the English Wikipedia's Arbcom taking on their third or
fourth sexual harassment within the year, without having even established a
working definition of what it is.

On Wed, May 27, 2015 at 12:06 AM, Neotarf <neotarf@gmail.com> wrote:

> Totally understandable.  I too have also been sexually harassed and
> doxxed, on at least two other sites besides WP.  The ArbCom and the WMF are
> well aware of it, and have been unwilling to lift a finger against it.
>
> There is a book about cyber harassment making the rounds: "Hate Crimes in
> Cyberspace" by Danielle Keats Citron ISBN 978-0-674-36829-3 describing both
> the horrible price that individuals pay and the legal underpinnings of the
> problem. It's a pity WP is not in the vanguard of this movement in the same
> way it has pioneered in other areas.  Instead, those who report harassment
> will find themselves treated worse than the harassers.
>
> On Tue, May 26, 2015 at 9:49 PM, Carol Moore dc <carolmooredc@verizon.net>
> wrote:
>
>> On 5/26/2015 8:35 PM, LB wrote:
>>
>>> Due to off-wiki harassment, I have retired. Thank you to those of you
>>> who have been friendly with me over the past year.
>>>
>>> Lightbreather
>>>
>>>
>>>  Plus all that on-wiki harassment!
>>
>> I did notice something interesting and actually positive in
>> Lightbreather's arbitration, compared to GGTF and others I've seen.
>>
>> Which is that now editors only can comment on Arbitration talk pages in
>> their own sections.  This lessens opportunities for drive-by harassing
>> taunts against, and replies against, various editors who harassers are
>> trying to get kicked off Wikipedia.  They have to take responsibility in
>> their own sections. Perhaps my screaming about "institutionalized
>> harassment at Arbcom" had at least this minor effect...  I hope they keep
>> it for all future arbitrations...
>>
>> Announcement on this page, after which went into effect.
>>
>> https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia_talk:Arbitration/Requests/Case/Lightbreather/Evidence#Sectioned_discussion_is_now_in_effect_on_this_page
>>
>> Also in effect here.
>>
>> https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia_talk:Arbitration/Requests/Case/Lightbreather/Workshop
>>
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Date: Wed, 27 May 2015 00:43:11 -0400
From: Risker <risker.wp@gmail.com>
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There is a tendency to ascribe a great deal of power to the Arbitration
Committee of English Wikipedia - and of the various arbitration committees,
it is the one with the greatest scope and perceived power.  In fact, Arbcom
has almost no ability to manage the world outside of the pages of the
Wikipedia project, and even within the project it can only handle minuscule
portions of the activities.  It has no power at all to control other
websites, can only take action against Wikipedians acting outside of the
project if there is an extremely clear and direct link between the
Wikipedia persona and the persona outside of WP, and is very wary of taking
action in the absence of direct links because many if not most arbitrators
and functionaries over the last 8-10 years have been the subject of
joe-jobs themselves.  I've had to have three separate LinkedIn accounts
purporting to be me taken down over the last 8 years, for example; others
have had their personal images and names attached to accounts on porn
sites, paid editing sites, and a fair number of other unsavory sites - so
as a group we can honestly say "there's plenty of reason to doubt" in a lot
of cases.

Arbcom is not all-powerful.  Even the full force of the WMF can only be
turned on to the most extreme cases of harassment; there simply aren't the
human resources to address comparatively run-of-the-mill harassment,
especially when it's occurring outside the walls of their projects.  Not
even huge internet-based companies like Facebook, Twitter, or Yahoo have
the personnel or the ability to prevent or address harassment on unrelated
sites, and they have hundreds of times more "community managers" than the
WMF has.

To compare to a non-internet situation:  How many police officers would be
needed to effectively stop catcalls being directed to women walking down
the street?  Or preventing bullies from picking on the skinny kid?

We know the answer - there aren't enough cops in the world to stop these
things even in one medium-sized city.  What needs to change is society's
attitude toward these activities - and because the internet isn't a single
society, the task is extremely difficult.  The WMF isn't going to be able
to solve it, Arbcom doesn't have a hope of solving it, and as long as the
same privacy laws that prevent people from digging into deeply private
information about us also protect people whose behaviour is very much
unappreciated, I'm not sure the legal systems of most democratic countries
will be able to solve it.

Risker/Anne

On 27 May 2015 at 00:21, Neotarf <neotarf@gmail.com> wrote:

> This might also be a good time to mention the conversation about
> harassment on the recent Inspire grant project.  Fourteen of the proposals
> were concerned with managing harassment.  I don't believe I ever saw anyone
> from the Foundation comment on this.
> https://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Grants:IdeaLab/Community_discussion_on_harassment_reporting
>
> Instead we now have the English Wikipedia's Arbcom taking on their third
> or fourth sexual harassment within the year, without having even
> established a working definition of what it is.
>
> On Wed, May 27, 2015 at 12:06 AM, Neotarf <neotarf@gmail.com> wrote:
>
>> Totally understandable.  I too have also been sexually harassed and
>> doxxed, on at least two other sites besides WP.  The ArbCom and the WMF are
>> well aware of it, and have been unwilling to lift a finger against it.
>>
>> There is a book about cyber harassment making the rounds: "Hate Crimes in
>> Cyberspace" by Danielle Keats Citron ISBN 978-0-674-36829-3 describing both
>> the horrible price that individuals pay and the legal underpinnings of the
>> problem. It's a pity WP is not in the vanguard of this movement in the same
>> way it has pioneered in other areas.  Instead, those who report harassment
>> will find themselves treated worse than the harassers.
>>
>> On Tue, May 26, 2015 at 9:49 PM, Carol Moore dc <carolmooredc@verizon.net
>> > wrote:
>>
>>> On 5/26/2015 8:35 PM, LB wrote:
>>>
>>>> Due to off-wiki harassment, I have retired. Thank you to those of you
>>>> who have been friendly with me over the past year.
>>>>
>>>> Lightbreather
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>  Plus all that on-wiki harassment!
>>>
>>> I did notice something interesting and actually positive in
>>> Lightbreather's arbitration, compared to GGTF and others I've seen.
>>>
>>> Which is that now editors only can comment on Arbitration talk pages in
>>> their own sections.  This lessens opportunities for drive-by harassing
>>> taunts against, and replies against, various editors who harassers are
>>> trying to get kicked off Wikipedia.  They have to take responsibility in
>>> their own sections. Perhaps my screaming about "institutionalized
>>> harassment at Arbcom" had at least this minor effect...  I hope they keep
>>> it for all future arbitrations...
>>>
>>> Announcement on this page, after which went into effect.
>>>
>>> https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia_talk:Arbitration/Requests/Case/Lightbreather/Evidence#Sectioned_discussion_is_now_in_effect_on_this_page
>>>
>>> Also in effect here.
>>>
>>> https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia_talk:Arbitration/Requests/Case/Lightbreather/Workshop
>>>
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Date: Wed, 27 May 2015 08:55:36 +0200
From: Jane Darnell <jane023@gmail.com>
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I wish you all the best, and thanks for your efforts!

On Wed, May 27, 2015 at 2:35 AM, LB <lightbreather2@gmail.com> wrote:

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>
> Lightbreather
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